"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should you get junior circumcised just so he will have it easier getting fellatio?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dear MDJ,
Six of one half a dozen of the other....As an uncircumcised Male,I have suffered the problem of infections in the tropics,but have the advantage of greater sensitivity...on consideration,I would still go the natural way,but wish that someone had wised me up on better hygiene earlier...as an aside,no one has mentioned the pleasure many Women get playing with an erection,the way in which mine folds up so neatly like a soft top on a sports car,has really fascinated some LOL.
 

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There really is no reason to get circumcised. The hygiene argument doesn't hold, IMO. I mean, do you knock out all your teeth because you have to brush and floss them multiple times a day? You clean your foreskin once a day for a few seconds in the shower. It's not that bothersome. Uncircumcised is the way nature intended. I'm glad I didn't get one. It can get really sensitive and can be an issue for women who don't have experience with one but at the end of the day, things can work if she can adapt.
 

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Should you get junior circumcised
I'd sooner hack at my own junk than allow a knife to my boys little twisty.

1. He's not a jew.

2. Keratinization of a c@ck kills about 20000 nerve endings, reducing his pleasure. Not my place to take that away from him. Besides if his knob was supposed to be an external organ it would be.

3. The sky falls in whenever female genital mutilation is mentioned with a collective gasp of horror, yet radio silence for boys? get the hell outta here.

4. The truck load of surveys and studies already done on womens pleasure always has uncut trumping cut. Something to do with the gliding sensation and vag dryness. Again, not my place to take that away from him.

5. From what I hear cut fellas need lube or moisturiser every time they have a wank. I'll spare him that bullsh!t too.

As for me, I've always preferred looking at a circumcised one in a porno movie
http://i490.photobucket.com/albums/rr267/pga4ever/OK.gif

FYI broseph, uncut looks the same as cut when hard.

On a side note: Proud to say I also converted my wing who's circumcised to keep his son intact.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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As an uncircumcised, I say no to circumcision. However, like Scaramouche said, it requires a bit of maintenance to keep it clean. Just clean it every time you take a shower. Things tend to build up underneath the folded skin.

And yes, You can make an uncut looks the same as cut. Now you have the best of both worlds.
 

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I've personally done 20-30 circumcisions. I will say that they pay quite well for 10 minutes worth of work :p

Medically, there is a small decrease in the rate of UTIs. Some studies have shown a lower rate of HIV transmission in circumcised males too.

As for aesthetics, it probably depends on where you live. In Canada, Australia and the UK, circumcision is not widely practiced so most girls would be used to looking at "ant eaters." In the US, roughly 60% of all boys are circumcised and there are regional variations in the rate of circumcisions. On the whole, the rate of circumcision appears to be dropping or leveling off.
 

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sharkbeat said:
As an uncircumcised, I say no to circumcision. However, like Scaramouche said, it requires a bit of maintenance to keep it clean. Just clean it every time you take a shower. Things tend to build up underneath the folded skin.

And yes, You can make an uncut looks the same as cut. Now you have the best of both worlds.
You should wash your d!ck daily regardless of whether you're circumcised, just like you hopefully would every other part of your body. And like the t!ts man said, when your d!ck is hard, the foreskin unfolds completely and you can't even tell that it's there.

Circumcision may have made sense in the old days, when people washed, on average, 1-2 times per year. Anyone who has access to a shower does not need to worry about it.
 

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Circumcision is a horrifying experience for an infant. The infant has millions of neurons forming around the experience of horrible pain at the site of his genitals, it cannot be good.
 

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Scaramouche said:
As an uncircumcised Male,I have suffered the problem of infections in the tropics,but have the advantage of greater sensitivity.
Since you've never been circumcised, how do you know you have more sensitivity? I'm not expert on this, but I've heard some claim that being uncircumcised helps a man last longer because the sensitivity is reduced. Although in this thread, the opposite seems to be true. Which is it? It would probably be hard for someone to say, unless they've walked both sides of the aisle (so to speak), which is unlikely.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko said:
I'm not expert on this, but I've heard some claim that being uncircumcised helps a man last longer because the sensitivity is reduced.
Theoretically that could be true if the foreskin fully covered the knob during penetration I guess. But it doesn't.

zekko said:
Although in this thread, the opposite seems to be true. Which is it?
I'd say it's bollocks.
 

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Where the hell did you get that from? Not true at all.

And don't get circumcized unless you have to, I did a couple of years ago because I had to and sex feels alot worse. There is all these lies that it doesn't make a difference but that is bull****.

It was way better when I wasn't circumcized. The problem is since nearly everyone is and has been since birth they have no idea.
 

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Slickster said:
Have you ever known a circumcised guy who wishes he wasn't?
Yeah there are some dudes who are so f*cked in the head they want to "restore" their foreskin by pulling the skin of the penis down around the head with weights.

Those guys should spend that time seeing a board-certified psychiatrist.

I'm not going to chime in with what's right or wrong because I don't really give a f*ck. But

1) I've never had a chick complain that she wished I had a foreskin and some women have said they were glad I didn't.

2) Circumcision reduces chances of penile cancer, HPV, and other STDS. http://www.cancer.org/cancer/penilecancer/detailedguide/penile-cancer-risk-factors

3) No foreskin means one fewer thing to worry about cleaning every day.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Very subtle snarky.....again

Zarky said:
Those guys should spend that time seeing a board-certified psychiatrist..
Says the lezzo who's been trolling the sphere incognito for years :crazy:

You flannel wearing cvnts bucking to inflict unnecessary pain on infant boys is a no brainer isn't it?
 

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stupid call to circumsize.. i would never do it unless it's lifethreathening.
As if creation made a mistake, don't make me laugh!
Besides, all literature point out that circumssized men have lost on average 4 times the sensitivity as opposed to non-cicumzised men!
The lie that it is safer against infections is just that.. a lie..
 

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San said:
Besides, all literature point out that circumssized men have lost on average 4 times the sensitivity as opposed to non-cicumzised men!
That would suggest that it is easier for a circumcised man to last longer then, yes?
 

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Zarky said:
Yeah there are some dudes who are so f*cked in the head they want to "restore" their foreskin by pulling the skin of the penis down around the head with weights.

Those guys should spend that time seeing a board-certified psychiatrist.

I'm not going to chime in with what's right or wrong because I don't really give a f*ck. But

1) I've never had a chick complain that she wished I had a foreskin and some women have said they were glad I didn't.

2) Circumcision reduces chances of penile cancer, HPV, and other STDS. http://www.cancer.org/cancer/penilecancer/detailedguide/penile-cancer-risk-factors

3) No foreskin means one fewer thing to worry about cleaning every day.
1)never heard of a woman complain because i have my foreskin plus again unless you are the soft kind it make no diference, plus you shouldn't hear much what woman say.

2) using a condom too from what I know

3) so most of you guys are saying to cut so you don't have to worry to clean you little guy? hell next time someone here ask for help with woman I will ask are you taking a bath everyday? cleaning everything right

serious lazyness to clean yourself up is a damn F*cked up excuse.....
 

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Circumcised here. Wish I weren't. My sensitivity is pretty low....I rarely rarely rarely cuum from bjs alone. I last forever during sex....waaaay too long, sometimes I can't. Dad was uncut, wish he woulda left me the eff alone. While I would rather be uncut, I'd not consider for a second doing the rejuve thing. Content with what I have, because its what I.got.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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