should you ever chase?

[carlitos]

I'm basing this on "if she's interested she'll come" or.."be the center and don't shift it"..which both makes sense. so being the man of indifference I interpret it as not chasing...but then what are some ways to draw her close to you without you giving your powers away?

 

[theguy351]

I'm basing this on "if she's interested she'll come" or.."be the center and don't shift it"..which both makes sense. so being the man of indifference I interpret it as not chasing...but then what are some ways to draw her close to you without you giving your powers away?

sometimes, the chase is the best part

 

[wjh]

you should feel free to chase all the time,
just have the focus be on you and not her.

you don't HAVE any power to "give away" (at least in the beginning) - so just go with the flow and have a good time. communicating interest is OK! just don't be needy and accept the fact that you may be rejected. it's all in your attitude.

 

[Last Man Standing]

The male chasing the female is the natural order of things!!! Where do you see otherwise?? Your power is in your masculinity and not in playing games!

 

[Last Man Standing]

you should approach but not chase

An approach is a chase.

 

[wjh]

"Chasing" just refers to a male's capacity to see a girl or girls, and approach them because that's what he wants. That's it.

If a girl says hello to you at a bar that's obviously not chasing but you CAN chase in the general sense.

DjDan, playing these semantics games are pointless.

The general point is... If you want women go after them. Period.

 

[Last Man Standing]

No it's not.

What if you are sitting in a bar.

A woman across the room gives you eye contact. She walks toward you, and she sits next to you. She orders a drink and she smiles at you.

Would saying "HELLO" be considered a chase in that situation, or is it just being polite? (an approach)

You are 45 years old and you should know better. A true player does not chase... instead the women chase HIM.

A woman chasing a man is not the natural order of things - this is what strippers and prostitutes do -- so beware!!!

"Chase" means to pursue!! Men pursue and women react!!

 

[wjh]

A "true player" is a dishonest individual that will lie/cheat/steal to get what he wants from a woman. A "true player" need not have that which makes a MAN a MAN.

A DJ will enjoy himself at the prospect of talking to a woman but his existence on Earth doesn't revolve around it.

A "true player" doesn't even think about it.

 

[zinc64]

Chasing is fine, just don't overdo it. Women liked to be chased but don't respect guys who chase to much. It's all about how you make her feel.

 

[carlitos]

i guess we would have to chase to a certain point..otherwise the relation wouldn't balance

but..

what if you're suspecting that she's playing with you? or is this sometimes just in your heads?

and approximately how far should you go about the chase every time? i know there should be push and pull..but when you try to pull her in (chase)..whats the general limit in your opinion?

 

[Canadian Catnip]

I prefer to consider it a HUNT. You are the hunter. Sometimes you catch your prey. Sometimes you have to give up because the prey does not want to be caught.

Hunters know that if what they are going after will cost them too much energy then there is no shame in passing up on the hunt.

So chase, but don't chase when you feel or believe you cannot catch the prey. Or it will involve too much energy and take away from other success.

 

[Birdem]

you should get a signal of her showing interest in you. If you are running around talking to every girl, you are giving your power away to these chicks because they can reject you. It's like they have the power to continue the convo or not, when it should be the other way around. I think you are right when you said its in our nature, but come on just any girl?

 

[Last Man Standing]

i feel like the man shoudl be the one taking action... but at the same time not to give away your power

By chasing, we are exhibiting our masculine power, and not diminishing it!!

 

[wjh]

Kiddo? Please.

anyway, i think you're arguing semantics here. Chasing is pursuing but obviously you correlate some sort of desperation with active pursuit aka "chasing" - maybe you're projecting but you sit at the bar and not make any efforts while i chat a girl that interests me up.

whatever

You are wrong kiddo.

Don JUAN, if we were to refer to the book and the movie of Don Juan DeMarco... you will see that the sole purpose of his existence was to seduce women. Get your facts right.

NOW, I am saying there should be more to life than just women. Women are only one piece of the puzzle. But what the hell does this have to do with chasing women? It seems you are shooting yourself in the leg and agreeing to what I just said.

There is more to life than chasing women. A man or a player should not chase every bitch that walks by, period.

 

[wjh]

and damn, ive been in agreement with lms a lot recently LOL

 

[Last Man Standing]

and damn, ive been in agreement with lms a lot recently LOL

You are in sync with the rhythm of truth!!! Truth reigns and hors obey!!!!!!!!

 

[wjh]

why don't you go suck his dick while you're at it? it doesn't look like he's got enough game to actually get a chick, you'd be doing him a favour.

LOL

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