Should you date just for the sake of it?

[silverwex]

Hey all,

Was just thinking today and i have a very interesting q to ask you all:

Should you date a girl even if you dont feel anything much for her?

Should you just do it to gain experience or just wait for a girl that you REALLY like to come along, and then start dating?

Cheers.

 

[DJ Jeff]

if you get sex, why not? It's also good practice mr DJing. But don't put too much effort into her if you're not into her.

 

[crackhead]

as long as she turns you on sexually

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by DJ Jeff
if you get sex, why not? It's also good practice mr DJing. But don't put too much effort into her if you're not into her.

How do you know if you're going to "get sex" if you haven't dated her yet?

That's the problem I have...I meet these girls while I'm horny and a little intoxicated and when I realize I can't get a hookup that night, I get the phone number, but the next day when I'm sober, I just don't feel anything any more.

It's like I have to "tolerate" having these women in my presence in order to (HOPEFULLY) get to a point where I can bang them. Call, talk to them (even though they may be boring to talk to), set up a damned appointment to see them, then bend my schedule and put in time and money to go meet this girl, all in the hope that it'll lead to sex.

There are other things I could be doing. It seems like such a waste of time and energy.

I think the problem is that despite the fact that I want to have sex with them, I JUST DON'T LIKE BEING AROUND WOMEN.

 

[The_King]

Yeah,

I think you should date them, as long as its not going to be bad social proof. I do.

As I see it as a learning process, I will try different things...noting the results. That way, when you do find a "good" lady for you, you will be more succesful and understand the finer points of your seduction and how to increase and amplify the attraction she has for you.

 

[iqqi]

There are other things I could be doing. It seems like such a waste of time and energy.

well there's your answer.