"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should you call a girl before POF first date

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Odisseo

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Hey guys

Just a quick question. I'm new to pof and have been having a few good prospects although also it's all kind of flaky.

Anyways I'm supposed to meet one tonight and one tomorrow night. Both hot. I was wondering if you have any opinions on calling them on the day of the date ie today to touch base, or does it come across as needy because all thse chicks want is **** anyways?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DragonBlood

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With POF I call them a few days before the date just to see if they are legit. Yeah calling on the day of the date is a bit weak, specially if they are busy or something.
 
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HedoRick

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I honestly just text. I keep the texting minimal to just discuss logistics of the meetup. I seldom get flakes. I used to text more frequently in the past and get more flakes- so less is more.
 
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