"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should you call a girl before POF first date

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Odisseo

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Hey guys

Just a quick question. I'm new to pof and have been having a few good prospects although also it's all kind of flaky.

Anyways I'm supposed to meet one tonight and one tomorrow night. Both hot. I was wondering if you have any opinions on calling them on the day of the date ie today to touch base, or does it come across as needy because all thse chicks want is **** anyways?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DragonBlood

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With POF I call them a few days before the date just to see if they are legit. Yeah calling on the day of the date is a bit weak, specially if they are busy or something.
 
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HedoRick

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I honestly just text. I keep the texting minimal to just discuss logistics of the meetup. I seldom get flakes. I used to text more frequently in the past and get more flakes- so less is more.
 
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