"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should You Be Happy On Your Birthday?

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I don't think so. Just another day, and plus it marks that you're getting older and closer to death. What's all the celebration about?

edit: It's not my birthday by the way. It was my classmate's birthday the other day, and he was ecstatic. I mean, when you're under 21, it is exciting because you want to get closer to the drinking age. But then again, even then you're drinking before you turn 21, so it's mostly about being able to get into clubs/bars. But after 21, it all goes downhill. Am I right or am I right?

I think the happiness is just because people are delusional and want another excuse to just get drunk. Oh "it's okay to get drunk and act like an idiot BECAUSE it's the guy's (or girl's) birthday." Not that I care, but sooner or later they will snap out of that delusional reality and realize they have accomplished nothing at age ____. And then it will hit them that getting older is really not cool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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~attrACTION~ said:
I don't think so. Just another day, and plus it marks that you're getting older and closer to death. What's all the celebration about?
Clearly your a pessemist, birthday is a celebration of life and a point where you reflect on yourself and how you GREW UP both physically and mentally... You should be happy that other people actually give a damn about your birthday.
 

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i'm happy in the sense than someone is taking me out to eat... but other than that it's not that bigga deal. everyone dies eventually. that's why you should live when you are here

By BDAY is this fathers day... I'm not looking forward to it, but I'm not mad or anything.. it's just another day
 

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I'm always happy when I drink. Mark a mile stone by being happy beyond all resonable recognition.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Clearly your a pessemist, birthday is a celebration of life and a point where you reflect on yourself and how you GREW UP both physically and mentally... You should be happy that other people actually give a damn about your birthday.

first of all, no one gives a damn about your birthday. my mom told me "i hate your birthday, because every time I tell you happy birthday, I remember I"m getting older"

really.. who gives a fvck when it's all said and done that you were born on this day 31 years ago?

I celebrate life everyday. I celebrate living. To me my B day really IS just another day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anniversaries are a women's thing. If it was just men on earth I don't think the concept would have caught on. But my birthday is near christmas so I have issues.
 

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Christ, there are some feeble people on this board.
 

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Well. The obvious answer is:

HELL YES.

People give you things, take you places, and think about you freaquently on this day. What's not to be happy about?

Oh, and all that "reflecting on how you've grown as a person", crap.
 

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I expect traffic to stop on my birthday :) (which is July 30, I'm a medium guys :D.) But seriously, why so negative? I can honestly say I enjoy my birthday, and I don't get drunk on my birthday either. I think it is pretty lame to use it as another excuse to drink, we have enough of those days peppered throughout the calendar.

But the fun in a birthday is getting older, and maturing, through experience and learning. You don't mature just because you did another lap around the Sun, like some people believe :). I guess for some aging is a dichotomy, wishing to get older until a certain age (usually 21) then lamenting the process once they pass that point.
 

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My last birthday I got taken out to drink, blacked out, chatted it up with some hot girl (according to my friends), scared this hot girl away with hate speech (according to my friends), somehow drove home, got into a fight with my now ex-roommates boyfriend, passed out, and woke up in a puddle of what I presume to be my own vomit.

Pretty mellow birthday, overall.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You should always be happy! If you are healthy, then you have no reason not to be happy!
 
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