"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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should you, as a man, date a female muscian? Need good advice.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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theMusician

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why not? what would you gain by it if you did? and if you didnt?
Would you enjoy being with her? Then why does it matter what she does?
As a musician I know this provides alot of opportunity for interesting conversations, ask her how she got into it, about how she got trained, her favorite pieces, what she likes to play, any groups she has been in, any music affiliations she has, on and on and on and on and on lol.

Just ask yourself insightful questions and if you want it, go for it bro.
 

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Edit: This thread is over a month old! dont be thread necromancer. Also, he wasnt asking HOW to get one, he was asking if its a good idea to. The OP was a retard anyway.

Also, yes it does matter what she does. A lot of people cant handle dating musicians. If you're such a musician, you should know this. What really matters is to what EXTENT of a musician she is. Its a hell of a lot easier to date chick with a band that only plays once a month or so, than a chick who goes on six week tours every few months. That would be undateable for me, and Im a musician myself.
 
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