“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Should you always go direct

Gammergq

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When you get sign that she likes you should you go direct?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gammergq said:
when you get I.O.I sign that she likes you?
No. Then you're just re-affirming the fact that she can have you because she has shown interest in you (especially if she purposely does an I.O.I.). Silly question, gammeroonie.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gammergq said:
When you get sign that she likes you should you go direct?
It depends, what do you do when you "go direct?"
 

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Seems like the challenge is between pretending to be indifferent, and really being more or less indifferent.
 

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reset said:
Seems like the challenge is between pretending to be indifferent, and really being more or less indifferent.
Indifference comes with success. Until you've had a fair amount, you can only pretend to be indifferent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah I think it's a combination of success/experience, and also genuine sense of self value. That's what fear of rejection is, choosing to give someone more value than yourself in your own mind.
 

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If I get a reliable sign, I'll go direct. I like to let a girl know I'm attracted to her, but not enough to chase her down. I'll talk with her when I go out, but I won't go out of my way to go back with her. Once she makes an effort, I'll put another step forward.
 
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