Should you always go direct

[Gammergq]

When you get sign that she likes you should you go direct?

 

[AmazingTricks]

when you get I.O.I sign that she likes you?

No. Then you're just re-affirming the fact that she can have you because she has shown interest in you (especially if she purposely does an I.O.I.). Silly question, gammeroonie.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

When you get sign that she likes you should you go direct?

It depends, what do you do when you "go direct?"

 

[reset]

Seems like the challenge is between pretending to be indifferent, and really being more or less indifferent.

 

[Dongfu]

Seems like the challenge is between pretending to be indifferent, and really being more or less indifferent.

Indifference comes with success. Until you've had a fair amount, you can only pretend to be indifferent.

 

[reset]

Yeah I think it's a combination of success/experience, and also genuine sense of self value. That's what fear of rejection is, choosing to give someone more value than yourself in your own mind.

 

[WC2]

If I get a reliable sign, I'll go direct. I like to let a girl know I'm attracted to her, but not enough to chase her down. I'll talk with her when I go out, but I won't go out of my way to go back with her. Once she makes an effort, I'll put another step forward.