"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should we post Race next to Age?

Should We Post Our Race?

  • Yes

    Votes: 2 18.2%
  • No

    Votes: 9 81.8%
  • Undecided

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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bigneil

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I'm sorry but if one more person posts a photo of an Asian girl I'm going to break something.

Only 1 in 20 Americans is Asian yet at least half the photos posted here are of Asian women (ten times their fair share). I wouldn't mind if the person would state at some point in their numerous references that the "hot babe" they are talking about is one of the 5 percentile (something 95% unlikely).

So I'm wondering if people would like to see race next to the user profile.

And do know that "racist" means discriminating against race, not denoting race, and I live in a city that is only 30% white.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Young Juan

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Nope. I can pretty much tell the race of most people on this board: A bunch of white guys, a few black guys, and sprinkles of all other minorities. Besides, we're all the same race: Human
 

SamTheHobit

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Young Juan said:
Besides, we're all the same race: Human
False we are not All one race, we are one species.

Your political correctness is a catastrophic failure.
 

Who Dares Win

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It would make communications much more effective as much as age but they will never allow anything like that, no matter how it would make it easier to understand and give suggestions.

A white guy approaching a white girl in a majority white country would face complete different conditions than a black guy approching that same girl as much as a white guy chasing girls in a rap club would face different conditions than a black guy.
Not so much because of himself but mostly because of the surrounding environment and people.

Sincerly I dont know if we are the same race,the same species or whatever but I can easily tell the difference between a white and a black so can everybody else (apart color blinds) as long as they are not some white suckers trying to win the PC contest.

The average girl acts different according to who you are and I think most of us here are looking to score that chick not to hear how similar we are.
Some girls would never go with minorities while others would give them a shortcut, we simply cannot ignore such facts to feel more "polite".

My opinion is that race threads should not be deleted or locked, its simply stupid to do such thing in a forum where most of users are clever guys aware of social conventions which could
benefit from some honest truth and good suggestions.
 

Iceberg

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Who Dares Win said:
My opinion is that race threads should not be deleted or locked, its simply stupid to do such thing in a forum where most of users are clever guys aware of social conventions which could
benefit from some honest truth and good suggestions.
The discussions were fine a few years ago, but as the site drew more members, we got more trolls.

And next thing you know, the respected members are flinging racial slurs at trolls (who only came here to start an argument anyway), so then you'd have respected members making an azz of themselves, and trolls getting to have some trollish fun.

Yeah, I'd love to think of us as "clever guys benefiting from honest truth and suggestions", but it's just not the case. Especially on the internet, where everyone is 100x bolder than they'd be in real life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quiksilver

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Young Juan said:
Nope. I can pretty much tell the race of most people on this board: A bunch of white guys, a few black guys, and sprinkles of all other minorities. Besides, we're all the same race: Human
Homo sapiens are a species of mammal, not a race.

It can be argued that different 'races' can actually be categorized as different sub-species, based on classification of other creatures.



do you want our blood type posted too?
 

Down Low

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Oh man! I could only wish that people had their blood group tattooed on their foreheads. Fortunately, one's background can be fairly well determined by dispassionate observation of physical features.

Really, there's no such thing as race. It's a misnomer. What we mean by "race" or "ethnicity" is what part(s) of the world did your ancestors come from.
 
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