Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should we feel guilty for not wanting to look at fat women in bikinis?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skinnyguy

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I know a woman who posts pics of fat women in bikinis on her facebook. They are essentially promoting an unhealthy lifestyle and are butt hurt they don't look pretty.
 

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I remember once long ago I was working at this one retail place. We were in the break room watching TV. A commercial came on that was pushing this anti-stretch mark cream. It purposely OVER-EMPHASIZED the stretch markets to better sell the product.

So they showed some lady with MASSIVE stretch marks, and I immediately said, "Gross!"

To which this pregnant lady, who was also in the breakroom, got offended.

Which I thought was pretty funny, since I was responding EXACTLY like the commercial wanted me to.
 

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Fat women trying to guilt men into being attracted to them are like homeless bums trying to guilt women into being attracted to them.

When is the last time a woman felt guilty for not showing sexual interest in a man? EXACTLY.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'll never understand why fat people choose to accept it, or worse try to put a spin on it and pretend nothing is wrong...

The benefits of being a normal weight are so overwhelming...
1) You'll be much healthier
2) You'll be less inhibited and get to do more things in life
3) You'll look much better
4) You'll get treated better
5) All your relationships with everyone will be better
6) Your life will be easier
7) You'll probably be more successful
8) You'll save lots of money, not just in food but medical bills
9) Your confidence will be higher
10) You'll feel better about yourself
11) WHY ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? LOSE WEIGHT NOW

Gee... should I keep eating excessive calories, or improve my life in almost every way possible by just not doing that? Decisions, decisions.

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.... WHAT SHOULD I DO HERE?
 

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Poon King said:
Fat women trying to guilt men into being attracted to them are like homeless bums trying to guilt women into being attracted to them.

When is the last time a woman felt guilty for not showing sexual interest in a man? EXACTLY.
My thought exactly.
We have as much right to pickiness as they do.
They need to work just as hard to achieve "perfection" as what they demand of men. End of my Rant.
 

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I just recently saw a FB post with a skinny chick and a fat chick, and it said "We only have one body, love the one you're in!" NEWS FLASH: if you love the body you're in, you need to treat it good. That means keeping it healthy. That means not allowing yourself to be fat. Being heavy is hard on the joints, folds get infected with bacteria in warm weather, and being overweight puts you at greater risk for developing diabetes and heart problems. When you have these problems, you're not loving your body, you're neglecting it.
 
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