I have a hard time doing this but, should we be turning down HB's requests to hang out so there anxiety level raises (even if we have nothing better to do)? I know that when a HB that I've been dating for a few weeks turns down my request to go out or hang out for whatever reason I get a bit panicky which only increases my IL... is it safe to assume the same goes for the women? I just have this stupid feeling that if I blow her off she will lose interest not gain interest... but that certainly isnt the case when its the other way around.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
should we be playing hard to get?
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