I have a hard time doing this but, should we be turning down HB's requests to hang out so there anxiety level raises (even if we have nothing better to do)? I know that when a HB that I've been dating for a few weeks turns down my request to go out or hang out for whatever reason I get a bit panicky which only increases my IL... is it safe to assume the same goes for the women? I just have this stupid feeling that if I blow her off she will lose interest not gain interest... but that certainly isnt the case when its the other way around.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
should we be playing hard to get?
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