Should this be a redflag??

[Mr_Pink]

Well, I called this girl up tonite to set a date up, and asked her what she wanted to do. She said something about dinner, so I asked her where she wanted to go, and she said something casual. That worried me. Then I asked her what she wanted to do afterward, and if she wanted to see a movie. She said that she just wanted to go to dinner. Once again, worrysome. Or, maybe she's just nervous, which I could believe too. What do you all think??

 

[Kodiac]

Stop asking her what she wants to do.

Your the man, you decide.
Take her to dinner, then take it from there. If you feel the mood is good or want to try for some pusssy, then take her to a movie or even better yet, take her home.

BE THE MAN.

 

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Originally posted by Mr_Pink
What do you all think??

i think you can count yourself lucky if this b!tch doesnt next you with those smooth moves.

what kodiac said

 

[Santos]

Yeah, never ask what they want to do. I'm suprised she made a decision without taking 2 1/2 hours. Is this your first date? Then dinner is enough...you're worrying about NOTHING. She wants to go to DINNER with you, why the heck are you worried about her JUST wanting dinner???

The first mistake all new people to this site make is over-analyising everything and NEXTING way too quickly. Ignore red-flags unless they're serious (e.g. she gets over-attached to you). I repeat, ignore minor "red-flags" and get the experience. You need it. Dating is meant to be fun, it's not rocket science.

Relax and enjoy!

 

[Walden]

ude , on 'dates' you make all the decisions, chicks totally mess their panties over guys who are decisisve .

I've seen it happen , a chicks IL went thru the roof on our furst date when the show we went to was cancelled. She turned to me to say what do we do now and I made a snap call and headed us purposefully off towards my favourite jazz bar.Immediatley she was gagging for it from there (I fumbled the f*** close but that's another story).