"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should there be a field reports forum?

Should there be a Field Reports forum added?

  • No, keep it the way it is.

    Votes: 9 30.0%
  • Yes, add a FR section ASAP!

    Votes: 21 70.0%

  • Total voters
    30

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My question is to see what the members here think about it. I think that personally a field reports forum would put needed emphasis on actually getting girls, which is what this site probably needs. Field reports (good ones) can be very good learning tools that will help people in my opinion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ice Cold

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Losers won't post FRs because they're just jerkoffs

The guys who are picking up, won't post cause they're not on sosuave

The ones who are supposedly "really good" will post a bunch of **** with an ad to a "seminar" at the bottom.
 

wunnaBsmooth

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I would post

I would post field reports.....
And I would hope other would as well....
I took most of the last decade off from sargin' so I need to boost.........
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Yes, yes, yes, and yes. I've even come up with a name for it.

"Approach- Reject- Keyboard"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hot Ice

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No because this bunch of pussies wouldn't get enough field to report anything on it.
 

Hot Ice

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One more point for no:

When you START successing, you can write and you are thrilled.

After a while you just think "even another girl I ****ed. Nothing special with that even I was having a brilliant game with her, but I'm too lazy to share the story as I already got the ***** and I don't give a **** about it anymore."
 

silverwex

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Yes, yes and, God, yes!!!

Why dont sosuave do this?! Ive been here nearly three years now and this has been discussed no end! It'll seperate the KBJs from the guys who ACTUALLY approach!

Cmon mods...!!!
 

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I_Only_Live_Once

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Yes, but they won't do it because the powers that be want to sabotage this site. There's a reason why anti-dump, pook, and senor fingers don't post on here anymore, they're sick of what this site has become--no improvements, nothing new, and run by kbjs/trolls.
 

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Oh well, I tried. Guess they just don't want to improve the site. Thanks Sosuave for some basic knowledge on women, but I'm out. I might try the Mystery Method Forum or mASF or something else or nothing at all. Best Wishes to all those who are sincere, open, and determined to get their goal. If you believe in yourself and are willing to apply what you know, you are going to get results.
 
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