hey brothers. I am back, trying it again... y'know. This is one question I still can't figure out. what do you think? there were times when I paid, and it was a bad experience. The women just used me for a meal and it didn't get me a 2nd date. Note to self: don't do that again. but going dutch makes me feel like a cheap-azz and I think my date(s) pick up on the low-confidence vibe when the check arrives. that could be a 2nd date killer too. is it a play-by-ear situation? Be prepared to offer to pay if the date goes really well or go dutch if it's a flop? what about "you buy the food and I buy the drinks"? (or visa-versa) or "you get the next round"? that kinda works, I think, sometimes.
I'm sure this is question has been asked and answered on this board many times. can't find it at at the moment. Please, what is your advice?
I'm sure this is question has been asked and answered on this board many times. can't find it at at the moment. Please, what is your advice?