should one wait until xmas is over to call up a girl?

[mackdaddy27]

I called up a girl yesterday, and she listed all the things she busy doing...


so she ended the call saying she'll call me saturday..but she hasn't called yet...


so i m thinking xmas is probably not the best time of the year to try and get a girl to hang out with you , when shes got to do xmas
family and stuff like that.

but at the same time, i dont want to forget me in a week or two...and be like who is this?

any suggestions.

thanks.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Ooops you left the ball in her court big mistake. I have done it many times but have finally learned the cardinal rule:

NEVER to let a girl say she will call you because she WON'T!

You should have said something like "I'm busy Saturday, I'll call you Sunday"

Should you call? I'm not sure someone else can answer that.

 

[mackdaddy27]

Ooops you left the ball in her court big mistake. I have done it many times but have finally learned the cardinal rule:

NEVER to let a girl say she will call you because she WON'T!

You should have said something like "I'm busy Saturday, I'll call you Sunday"

Should you call? I'm not sure someone else can answer that.

thanks thats excellent advice...well I guess i m wait and call her on Sunday then

 

[wheelin&dealin]

give her a call xmas morning around 9am. hope this helps!

 

[The Inside Man]

Don't call her Xmas morning, you have way more important things to do, or you should, and that time is for family anyway. I think calling her after Christmas is a great idea, it shows you aren;t needy and that she isn't that important to you. The only people I'm calling on Christmas are family members and close friends.


I plan on doing the same thing with a girl I've put on the back burner for awhile.

 

[tsmith2334]

I'm waiting 2-3 days after Christmas to make a call I'm planning on

 

[mackdaddy27]

I'm waiting 2-3 days after Christmas to make a call I'm planning on

Don't call her Xmas morning, you have way more important things to do, or you should, and that time is for family anyway. I think calling her after Christmas is a great idea, it shows you aren;t needy and that she isn't that important to you. The only people I'm calling on Christmas are family members and close friends.


I plan on doing the same thing with a girl I've put on the back burner for awhile.

cool you guys are on agreement with what I was thinking, .that its better to wait until things cool down and she has more free time.....I think 1 day after christmas would be fine...but i dont want to wait too long or she 'll forget me !

 

[tsmith2334]

cool you guys are on agreement with what I was thinking, .that its better to wait until things cool down and she has more free time.....I think 1 day after christmas would be fine...but i dont want to wait too long or she 'll forget me !

your right to wait until after christmas... as for the 26th... my instincts tell me to wait one to two more days. I'm aiming for the 27th- 28th. I think three days after is perfect.

 

[Bigg Boss]

She most likely forgot. call her after Christmas. The day after is OK.

 

[ketostix]

your right to wait until after christmas... as for the 26th... my instincts tell me to wait one to two more days. I'm aiming for the 27th- 28th. I think three days after is perfect.

Yeah I'm thinking Thursday's going to be a great time to start making some calls.

 

[The Juan and only]

nevermind.

 

[Monkey]

I called up a girl yesterday, and she listed all the things she busy doing...

Very low interest, forget her...

 

[blackbelt2k]

take a minute and look at what just happened from an outside perspective. You are bothering this girl, i.e. she has low interest. If some fat chick called you, what would you tell her? You'd list of the things you are doing, in other words you would let her down easily. However if some really fine chick called you, you'd take a minute to have a real convo. This girl is not interested, don't waste your time man, move on. Don't burn the bridiges, but also just forget her and move on. There mere fact your concerned about whether or not to call her is showing that your needy. This IS NOT what you want to convey. If she said she'd call and she didn't, fvck her for now, call her when your horny in a few weeks.