"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should one call a lot

styleman

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If a girl responds to you whenever you call/message her, is it a good idea to message/call a lot?
i.e. ask how was your class? how did ---- event in her life go?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cashew

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Don't call a lot until things are exclusive. But even then, don't call every day.
 

Prodigy746

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The less you call the better (2-3 times in a week is normal).

If you call all the time you sound like you are needy/ dont have a life.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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aix237

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Never call a lot. U look needy. U can be a year in and still look needy if u call. Chicks are emotional and need there space. When she doesn't call u and she gives iois think of it as she wants to chill out. Shell call you. If u feel her slipping away call her once then et her continue to call u always.
 

bouji

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Not unless she considers you her boyfriend AFIK.
 

JDA70

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Yeah calling alot I think is considered in the DJ community as AFC.
 
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