"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should man accept a girl's decision on a date? Or should he always lead the girl?

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TylerDurden92

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According to what I know a man should always make the decisions and lead the girl, but what happens if the girl suddenly makes a decision that benefits both of us?

For example if we are walking to a coffee shop, and as we walk next to a park she suddenly says: "lets sit on that bench for a while". Should I keep my plan of the coffee shop or let her get her way and stay there for a while?

Another example: I arranged a picnic with a girl but when the day came the weather was starting to get worse. Just before I texted her to change plans (go for a coffee or something indoors), when she herself sent a message saying it was a bad day for picnic and suggesting a place and time (almost the same I would have decided).

What should I do in these situations? Should I offer something different for the sake of leading? Or risk being a bit too bland and letting myself be leaded?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Slickster said:
It's fine just don't make it a habit.
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What this man said!
 
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SoSuave666

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Nah, every response so far is bullsh!t. They aren't giving you a proper answer.

If a woman stops to do her thing, you can do it...but for a limited time and you must make SURE that you end up doing what you want--especially early on in the 'ship. Once you get into a relationship you can give ground.

By all means, make her happy and sit on the bench. But afterwards, you're going to the coffee shop, a bar, and then banging.
 
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