Should incels just "go to church" to get a woman?

[MatureDJ]

https://www.nationalreview.com/magazine/2018/05/28/incel-advice-start-going-to-church/

my opinion: I had somewhat followed this advice years ago in the early '90s, not attending the "church" part of church , but rather the singles dances sponsored by the church. I did far better in that venue than anywhere else (in the USA), but I quit going after a few years when the few young, childless, non-stuckup chicks that would show up every now & then (typically because of a harridan friend that was going) dried up, replaced by young single mommies. I also had an older colleague who had a severe limp who had joined a Baptist church to pick up women, and he ended up getting married to a chick with 4 kids. ; I picked up on one of his ex-stepdaughters one night (at a country & western joint, LOL), and so I suspect the mommie was pretty good (that colleague said she was hot), but equally as batty.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Church is another environment that shouldn't be ignored.

 

[Billtx49]

If you’re personally religious, you will have an existing framework with some common ground and some personal compatibility with her to be discovered. If you’re not christian, then don’t bother, it’s a recipe for a big backfire…

 

[Poonani Maker]

No church anymore but one fits the square peg of the round hole of my beliefs. I will attend because I'm looking for a like-minded woman, a subservient woman. However in this "sect" I've found people divorced by women in the church FOUR times (when the church is supposed to be for LIFE in this particular church). I was shocked at his stories. Granted he was ugly and poor, especially after the 4th, had a restraining order on him that day I met him, but a go-getter I guess. My (new) rep was tarnished after speaking with this dude. I didn't know his history until he spilled it all to me that day. I haven't gone back to that church but will later when people will have forgotten about me I hope. Guilt by association. He used to be in the "choir" as well.

 

[corrector]

I do not think going to church will help incels get women, or I would have already had a woman going to church. Granted, the specific church I've been going to doesn't have any, maybe just one, single women. The sisters are either very young girls or are married women. I do recall, when I was a young adult, that churches in general did nothing for me in that department. It goes to what another poster said, if you don't have a problem with women and you are attractive, then it doesn't really matter where you go, you'll be meeting and dating girls. If you are really incel, then even going to church to meet women can not save you any more than meeting women in other venues who may "happen" to be Christian incidentally. If you are really hot then church girls may want to missionary date you even if you are not a Christian. If you are not then they don't care about you even if you are a Christian. Incel usually just flukes out somewhere by chance, in the church or outside the church.

 

[corrector]

No church anymore but one fits the square peg of the round hole of my beliefs. I will attend because I'm looking for a like-minded woman, a subservient woman. However in this "sect" I've found people divorced by women in the church FOUR times (when the church is supposed to be for LIFE in this particular church). I was shocked at his stories. Granted he was ugly and poor, especially after the 4th, had a restraining order on him that day I met him, but a go-getter I guess. My (new) rep was tarnished after speaking with this dude. I didn't know his history until he spilled it all to me that day. I haven't gone back to that church but will later when people will have forgotten about me I hope. Guilt by association. He used to be in the "choir" as well.

That sounds like another phony church. If you take Jesus Christ as a standard, and people really took that seriously, then you shouldn't have to worry about your reputation being tarnished. They should be concerned about your soul being won to the Lord, or if you are saved, or how you are with the Lord. You should be feeling blessed or better off visiting the church then feel like you went to any worldly place with worldly standards. There doesn't sound anything "real" about that. Just sounds like a social club.

 

[Poonani Maker]

That sounds like another phony church. If you take Jesus Christ as a standard, and people really took that seriously, then you shouldn't have to worry about your reputation being tarnished. They should be concerned about your soul being won to the Lord, or if you are saved, or how you are with the Lord. You should be feeling blessed or better off visiting the church then feel like you went to any worldly place with worldly standards. There doesn't sound anything "real" about that. Just sounds like a social club.

It was social from the get-go. I was shunned from the start and afterwards for being a single 40s male. I got much outta the choir though. Everyone dresses up too, ties/slacks - I was in shorts maybe that hurt but it was hot af. Collared shirt though. Sweat was pouring out of my armpits regardless. I don't see how they could stand it. The other church I go to every now and then is very much more welcoming but smaller. And the main dude there knows me via my job. He used to work for my company. I'm not networking really, just there for Jesus. I have no ambition for a job or getting anything from anyone, politics whatever. I'm there to hear good voices. Death is very serious. Your focus is adjusted when in church to think about death/life, grave matters of the spirit. If you don't pause every now and then in your life to reflect on what you really think happens when you check out of your meat suit, then you're just a meat suit walking along. I believe that your life force or spirit travels somewhere when your body stops. I don't know where and the whole thing is just mystifying to me. I read pre-1950s authors and books and it's talked of every now and then in these books of ghosts being spotted while growing up as a kid seeing a ghost drift out a 2nd floor window before being told that a 90 year old men is confirmed to be death. Various other phenomenon like mind-reading puzzles me as well - certain people had a gift for that way back then. Then there's dream state, right before you slip into sleep your body jolts or twitches. I take magnesium threonate which makes me Dream soaring big memorable dreams Every night. It builds a bridge in your brain, keeps your brain from getting old.

 

[wifehunter]

Meh, been there, done that.

Not impressed.

You'll find trash just as easily at church, as on the street.

Why bother?

 

[Mike32ct]

The other problem with church, wouldn’t most people show up for the mass, stay quiet during the mass (as you’re supposed to) and leave immediately afterwards, leaving you little to no time to meet and talk with anybody new?

At the end of mass, at most, people chat with their family a bit and maybe the priest/pastor. I don’t see it as a singles opportunity at all.

 

[Red Legg]

The other problem with church, wouldn’t most people show up for the mass, stay quiet during the mass (as you’re supposed to) and leave immediately afterwards, leaving you little to no time to meet and talk with anybody new?

At the end of mass, at most, people chat with their family a bit and maybe the priest/pastor. I don’t see it as a singles opportunity at all.

Why would you want to go to a catholic church ? and pray to a woman (mary) how beta is that ? that is why you go to church functions and sunday school there are unicorns in them thar churches and they wouldn't give an incel the time of day ...lool

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I have been listening to Jordan Peterson. The biblical series is pretty telling and I see the value he's doing by emphasizing sacrifice. It's something that's pedals to women but, monogamy rarely acknowledges the sacrifice man makes or risks. With that said, I think that any man seeking marriage, should consider it. If you are trad, if you believe in God, you acknowledge the holy trinity, the symbolism being, the two become one. This is a sacrament in which you become the closest to God.

It's a great idea to have considering the cesspool of dating. Most women see themselves as their God. I've yet to meet a woman that believes in God and acts accordingly.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The other problem with church, wouldn’t most people show up for the mass, stay quiet during the mass (as you’re supposed to) and leave immediately afterwards, leaving you little to no time to meet and talk with anybody new?

At the end of mass, at most, people chat with their family a bit and maybe the priest/pastor. I don’t see it as a singles opportunity at all.

There's a 'peace be with you' part which is ideal. No doubt, you have very little time to make so, 3sec rule in effect lol

 

[Poonani Maker]

Why would you want to go to a catholic church ? and pray to a woman (mary) how beta is that ? that is why you go to church functions and sunday school there are unicorns in them thar churches and they wouldn't give an incel the time of day ...lool

True. I saw a pure French pale pasty brunette give a Bush African visiting from Ghana and they WOULD give an incel the time of day for at least 2 weeks cause that's how long it took for him to impregnate her because of her "guilty" imposed by the Political Correctness promoted (as something "Jesus said" help the poor) in ALL American churches. That's a fact, witnessed it with my very own eyes 7 years ago. 2 weeks. Her parents (dad an engineer) were VERY strict.

 

[Red Legg]

True. I saw a pure French pale pasty brunette give a Bush African visiting from Ghana and they WOULD give an incel the time of day for at least 2 weeks cause that's how long it took for him to impregnate her because of her "guilty" imposed by the Political Correctness promoted (as something "Jesus said" help the poor) in ALL American churches. That's a fact, witnessed it with my very own eyes 7 years ago. 2 weeks. Her parents (dad an engineer) were VERY strict.

That girl sounds like a free willie for sure...