"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I?

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I have the oppurtunity to go out with a girl Ive had a thing for for a while. Weve dated twice before and it didnt work out. She said that after she started going out with me she would "not want me as much as she did when we werent going out" and then when we werent going out she would want me again. Well after going out with one of my friends for about a month she broke it off and now said she likes me again. Im hesitant,I like her but I dont want to go through the process again. Any suggestions for her not "not want me as much as she did when we werent going out" again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks like you get too comfortable early on, so once she has you, she knows it... play a little more aloof and don't always be free to hangout with her.

She wants to chase you and feel as if you may move on, to keep her interested... Many people are like this to some extent. once something falls in our lap, the novelty of its desire quickly fades.

You sound young.

now, for my REAL piece of advice:

Tell her to get lost, and find a girl who doesn't play these games with you. If you did that, you wouldn't have this problem, now would you?
 
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Well I know shes not intentionally "playing games", I know shes felt this way becuase she considers me one of her close friends. And incase you feel that the way I discussed this makes it sound like she doesnt want me,thats not the case.
 
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Date other women, while still trying to get in her pants. But, above all, date other women, and be ready to next her.
 
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