I have the oppurtunity to go out with a girl Ive had a thing for for a while. Weve dated twice before and it didnt work out. She said that after she started going out with me she would "not want me as much as she did when we werent going out" and then when we werent going out she would want me again. Well after going out with one of my friends for about a month she broke it off and now said she likes me again. Im hesitant,I like her but I dont want to go through the process again. Any suggestions for her not "not want me as much as she did when we werent going out" again?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Should I?
- Thread starter puchman
- Start date