"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DubstepGuy

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I have english classes on wednesday, i wont pass because i miss half of the lessons anyway. However, every girl is over 7/10, even the teacher. Plus, there are 9 of us guys and about 14 girls. So... do i keep going to the class or have a day off every wednesday?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pros:
-All girls are hot
-Most guys are bad at picking up
-Class is short (1 hour 30 mins)
-Majority of the class are girls
-If i don't go, i'll have a free day

Cons:
-I WILL fail
-I'm also bad at picking up
-Classes are awkward, people don't speak much
-If i don't go, i'll be doing nothing with my time
 

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ok, try this its a sure thing you will fail? if its because you missed a lot of classes you can talk with your teacher and see if you can do anything to fix that, if not you should still go, learn half now so later you will have a easyer time to pass the class
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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