"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I wear a ring?

DrPhysique

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I was wondering what you guys think about wearing a ring? I won a hockey championship when I was playing hockey and I was unsure if I should wear it or not. It's a big ring that cost about 750$. I never wear it, but should I?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you're going out to any social events, sure. Don't wear it to work though.
 

DrPhysique

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Spectre said:
If you're going out to any social events, sure. Don't wear it to work though.
I'm a student and I will be for a very long time. haha

I'm guessing university goes in with work?
 

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Yes. It's something should should be proud of. You earned it.

I'm a Master Mason and wear my fathers masonic ring as did his father before him. A legacy if you will.
 
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