"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I warm things up again?

djalat

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So it's been over 9 months since after many many grueling months I broke up with my gf of some 1,5years. I haven't talked to her since, not mentioning the few hellos we've exchanged when we ran into each other. About a week ago I saw her on out on town again and we started talking. Long story short I got home 7AM. Since then all the old memories have flooded back to me, I know this girl is trouble for me since I clearly remember what a wreck I was the last time. For some odd reason I still can't help but wonder...what if... So my question is, should I try to warm things up, being wiser now and I know what to look out for or should I just get out while I still can?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheException

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djalat said:
So it's been over 9 months since after many many grueling months I broke up with my gf.
No need to read any farther. If your still thinking about your ex and "what could be" 9 months after a breakup...your doing it wrong. She's an ex for a reason...get over her pal.
 

hockeyfreak79

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Move on man, NEVER GO BACK ALWAYS MOVE FORWARD. The past is the past.

Took me about 6 months to get over my LTR of 7 years, I took some time off for myself to get my sh*t together. Get out there and get some new poon, this is the best cure to get you to forget about the ex, it will also boost your confidence.
 
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