Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I warm things up again?

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So it's been over 9 months since after many many grueling months I broke up with my gf of some 1,5years. I haven't talked to her since, not mentioning the few hellos we've exchanged when we ran into each other. About a week ago I saw her on out on town again and we started talking. Long story short I got home 7AM. Since then all the old memories have flooded back to me, I know this girl is trouble for me since I clearly remember what a wreck I was the last time. For some odd reason I still can't help but wonder...what if... So my question is, should I try to warm things up, being wiser now and I know what to look out for or should I just get out while I still can?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djalat said:
So it's been over 9 months since after many many grueling months I broke up with my gf.
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No need to read any farther. If your still thinking about your ex and "what could be" 9 months after a breakup...your doing it wrong. She's an ex for a reason...get over her pal.
 
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Move on man, NEVER GO BACK ALWAYS MOVE FORWARD. The past is the past.

Took me about 6 months to get over my LTR of 7 years, I took some time off for myself to get my sh*t together. Get out there and get some new poon, this is the best cure to get you to forget about the ex, it will also boost your confidence.
 
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