"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I wait to start dating?

rkc09

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I just finally got my driving permit.....which I gotta hold for six months. So until September of this year. I was just wondering. Should I wait to get a license to start dating girls or should I just go for it anyways? I want to date but the hold permit thing might slow down my game. Idk, I think I can do it but there's too many guys(competion) that are driving and girls might go for that guy just cuz he can drive her around the city. Gosh I made a thread about before but I can't help but to feel like guys that drive have an upper hand against me when it comes to dating. Should I just wait for the license to come? Or should I just date girls anyways? Any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LittleBigOne

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Do you really believe that a car does mather???
It means nothing that a guy drives a car and take a girl around. Does it mean they have sex after the tour? Hell no! And do you wanne have a girl who just likes you because of a car?
The car doesn't make a difference in the competition with other guys. Personality is the key. If you wanne have a girl focus on your qualities and about ALL the POSITIVE things you DO have. I meanyour personal things, not the material things. Read the DJ Bible!
 

rkc09

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Okay, listen I've read the DJ Bible. Thanks for the response btw. But I was just wondering what to do. I guess you're right. But I it's possible but isn't alot harder to date someone without a license. This is what bothers me. Having to meet up everywhere could cause problems here and there. Idk maybe I'm thinking to hard about it.....
 

SinJester

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Don't wait.

Never wait.

Why miss out on the NOW by waiting for something that will come ANYWAY.

If you start NOW you will have more experiance THEN.

Don't wait.

Never wait.
 
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