"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I wait to start dating?

rkc09

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I just finally got my driving permit.....which I gotta hold for six months. So until September of this year. I was just wondering. Should I wait to get a license to start dating girls or should I just go for it anyways? I want to date but the hold permit thing might slow down my game. Idk, I think I can do it but there's too many guys(competion) that are driving and girls might go for that guy just cuz he can drive her around the city. Gosh I made a thread about before but I can't help but to feel like guys that drive have an upper hand against me when it comes to dating. Should I just wait for the license to come? Or should I just date girls anyways? Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LittleBigOne

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Do you really believe that a car does mather???
It means nothing that a guy drives a car and take a girl around. Does it mean they have sex after the tour? Hell no! And do you wanne have a girl who just likes you because of a car?
The car doesn't make a difference in the competition with other guys. Personality is the key. If you wanne have a girl focus on your qualities and about ALL the POSITIVE things you DO have. I meanyour personal things, not the material things. Read the DJ Bible!
 

rkc09

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Okay, listen I've read the DJ Bible. Thanks for the response btw. But I was just wondering what to do. I guess you're right. But I it's possible but isn't alot harder to date someone without a license. This is what bothers me. Having to meet up everywhere could cause problems here and there. Idk maybe I'm thinking to hard about it.....
 

SinJester

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Don't wait.

Never wait.

Why miss out on the NOW by waiting for something that will come ANYWAY.

If you start NOW you will have more experiance THEN.

Don't wait.

Never wait.
 
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