Should I wait a week or ask her out on Facebook

[TheGambino]

Yo bro's waddup!

I'm doing good, working out almost everyday, eating healthy and I'm feeling very good. Working out is major key to more hapiness imo.

Twee weeks ago I posted about this girl that works at the gym I work out. She offered me a ride to my house since I was waiting in front of the door of the gym at closing time. She found in the gym computer system that I live in the same village as her so it was easy for her to lift me home, but I think there must be some kind of interest if a girl isolates herself in a car with a man without any others. I was waiting for my mother to pick me up (didn't tell her). Since I value my mother more then any girl I declined her ride, my battery was low to inform my mom.

Now 3 weeks later, she's working again (she works only on saturdays). I came in the gym this morning and she says this ''Wow your early today, you always come in the afternoon'' I smiled to her and told her I woke up early today. Had some more short brief chats with her while working out. Every time this dude is around her that works in the gym too so I couldn't number close or ask her out in front of a co-worker.

She knows I'm home alone. Anyway I didn't give her much attention while working out, I was too busy with my routine.

When i was doing cardio in the end she sat alone behind the desk without the guy so I changed and was planning on asking her out and number closing. Unfortunately she was helping new clients when I passed her desk so I couldn't talk.

I'm sure I see her next week again but I'm home alone and she lives nearby. You guys think it's safe to hit her up on facebook message for a short chat and ask her number to call her for a date? Or do you guys think it will ruin my chances? Is it creepy, weird? Or do you guys think that if she is interested she will give her number in every occasion to me?

Yes guys I know it's ALWAYS better to ask for numbers in person and not due social-media, it's weak I know but I'm home alone and don't want to wait a week...

Not sure what to do here... What do you guys think? THANKS BRO'S

 

[Desdinova]

You guys think it's safe to hit her up on facebook message for a short chat and ask her number to call her for a date?

Unless she agreed to add you on Facebook, the answer is no. If you just randomly add her, you're going to give off the creep vibe. You have no clue what her interest level is sitting at.

 

[TheGambino]

I didn't add her on facebook yet. I wasn't planning on it. I was just planning on texting her on Facebook message. So whats your opinion?

 

[Von]

Do it in person.

Desdinova wrote what to do... if she adds you: do it.

However, you seems the one to be sending the invite

 

[ohrein]

No to adding her on facebook. To add to that, though. You're obsessing over all the things she's doing. If YOU are interested in her, you should have already asked her out at the first sign of interest. Waiting around to make a move kills her attraction. If she's just being friendly she'll reject you and no harm no foul.

 

[marmel75]

Stop with this already. Stop making excuses as to why you can't ask her out. Stop worrying about all these other things that have zero importance. Stop with the my Mom was picking me up so I couldn't accept the ride. Dude, you had a chance and you blew it. It's as simple as that. This is what happens when a person doesn't have enough options and they don't take advantage of the shots that come their way. They obssess over things the way you are now.

Do not message her on FB that is some creepy stalker sh!t. Next time you see her ask her out. It doesn't matter who is there with her, why do you care?

 

[l__i__l]

Yes don't you dare message her on FB, that is creepy, go to her house instead.

 

[dustmuffin]

Yes don't you dare message her on FB, that is creepy, go to her house instead.

I think going to her house would be very creepy.....

 

[EyeBRollin]

You should ask her out in person next time you see her. You probably already killed your chances though. You gotta strike while the iron is hot.

 

[3agle 3yes]

I'm not about to start giving you advice, but this is what I do.

I NEVER tell (I tell girls to give me their number, I don't "ask") a girl to give me her number unless we have some spark, if there is no spark then I don't bother.

I came in the gym this morning and she says this ''Wow your early today, you always come in the afternoon''

She notices what time you arrive in the gym, didn't you see this?

Every time this dude is around her that works in the gym too so I couldn't number close or ask her out in front of a co-worker.

Did I miss something? Why is her co-worker being there a problem? Is it weird to hit on people you're attracted to?

Anyway like I said, I need to spark a fire first, once this happens it's only natural for her to give you her number and meet outside the gym.