"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I trust this girl?

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Well I talked to one of my friends about this girl that I like. I asked her, "hey does so-and-so like anyone". She says "no" and then "i'm sorry". So then I'm bummed and the usual ****. Then I wonder, hmm, what if she's not telling me the truth.

I wonder this because my friends tell me that the girl I asked likes me. So I'm wondering if she's bending the truth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That has got to be spam.

No, in all seriousness, you should be looking at the girl that you're interested in to find that out, rather than relying on other people to do it for you.
 
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Yeah, if you ask people if other people like other people, that other person's going to find out that you asked that person if that other person liked someone.

Any questions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pink... Why are you still asking people about who XYZ is interested in?
 
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PinkFloyd said:
Well I talked to one of my friends about this girl that I like. I asked her, "hey does so-and-so like anyone". She says "no" and then "i'm sorry". So then I'm bummed and the usual ****. Then I wonder, hmm, what if she's not telling me the truth.

I wonder this because my friends tell me that the girl I asked likes me. So I'm wondering if she's bending the truth.
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dont be a damn fool. 'does so and so like anyone??' i mean is that a joke? thats what we asked in fifth grade, and i dont want to even answer your question about whether shes lying or not cause honestly its pathetic.

dont wonder if she likes people. you have to find better **** to do with your time. your afc for asking, and thats bad. learn to hate that part of yourself, and to encourage the part that is too busy having a life to give a ****.
 
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I'm well aware that what I did was an AFC move, but I honestly don't care. I was tired of getting mixed signals so I'd figure I just ask her friend upfront.

I just want to ask, why would I come to this site and make this topic for it to be a joke? I have better things to do with my time. It also isn't fifth grade. Fifth grade is when girls tease boys, and the boys are in love with Saturday morning cartoons.
 
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I'm well aware that what I did was an AFC move, but I honestly don't care. I was tired of getting mixed signals so I'd figure I just ask her friend upfront.

I just want to ask, why would I come to this site and make this topic for it to be a joke? I have better things to do with my time. It also isn't fifth grade. Fifth grade is when girls tease boys, and the boys are in love with Saturday morning cartoons.
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well my fifth grade experience was much more impressive than yours then :cool:

heh heh anyways you cant let mixed signals phase you. keep trucking on doing whatever you normally would do until you get a solid shutdown...she tells you she doesnt want you (which i usually try to plow through anyways :D), she gives you a fake number, she tries to shoot you, etc. all these can be recoverable, but until you get a solid evidence that she doesnt want you, assume she does.

and why wouldnt she? your a dj.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^Great Post :)

Tomorrow I'll call her and see if she wants to "hang out" (probably with a few other friends).

I also have a question. I was with my friend who gets a lot of babes, and I saw him talking on the phone to a girl. He was jokingly telling her that if she didn't leave some bonfire he would slap her with his **** :eek: . LOL! I guess this is just being the "I don't care what I say" guy. So my question is: when I'm around girls (perticularly ones I like), should I just not care what I say (but not try to be offending)?
 
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It all depends on how you normally act. If you tend to say inapropriate things all the time (ie, me) go ahead. Not doing so will make you look like your actually puting yourself on hold for this girl. Otherwise avoid it: looks like your trying to act bad.
 
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