Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I trust this girl?

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Well I talked to one of my friends about this girl that I like. I asked her, "hey does so-and-so like anyone". She says "no" and then "i'm sorry". So then I'm bummed and the usual ****. Then I wonder, hmm, what if she's not telling me the truth.

I wonder this because my friends tell me that the girl I asked likes me. So I'm wondering if she's bending the truth.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That has got to be spam.

No, in all seriousness, you should be looking at the girl that you're interested in to find that out, rather than relying on other people to do it for you.
 
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Yeah, if you ask people if other people like other people, that other person's going to find out that you asked that person if that other person liked someone.

Any questions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pink... Why are you still asking people about who XYZ is interested in?
 
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PinkFloyd said:
Well I talked to one of my friends about this girl that I like. I asked her, "hey does so-and-so like anyone". She says "no" and then "i'm sorry". So then I'm bummed and the usual ****. Then I wonder, hmm, what if she's not telling me the truth.

I wonder this because my friends tell me that the girl I asked likes me. So I'm wondering if she's bending the truth.
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dont be a damn fool. 'does so and so like anyone??' i mean is that a joke? thats what we asked in fifth grade, and i dont want to even answer your question about whether shes lying or not cause honestly its pathetic.

dont wonder if she likes people. you have to find better **** to do with your time. your afc for asking, and thats bad. learn to hate that part of yourself, and to encourage the part that is too busy having a life to give a ****.
 
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I'm well aware that what I did was an AFC move, but I honestly don't care. I was tired of getting mixed signals so I'd figure I just ask her friend upfront.

I just want to ask, why would I come to this site and make this topic for it to be a joke? I have better things to do with my time. It also isn't fifth grade. Fifth grade is when girls tease boys, and the boys are in love with Saturday morning cartoons.
 
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I'm well aware that what I did was an AFC move, but I honestly don't care. I was tired of getting mixed signals so I'd figure I just ask her friend upfront.

I just want to ask, why would I come to this site and make this topic for it to be a joke? I have better things to do with my time. It also isn't fifth grade. Fifth grade is when girls tease boys, and the boys are in love with Saturday morning cartoons.
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well my fifth grade experience was much more impressive than yours then :cool:

heh heh anyways you cant let mixed signals phase you. keep trucking on doing whatever you normally would do until you get a solid shutdown...she tells you she doesnt want you (which i usually try to plow through anyways :D), she gives you a fake number, she tries to shoot you, etc. all these can be recoverable, but until you get a solid evidence that she doesnt want you, assume she does.

and why wouldnt she? your a dj.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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^Great Post :)

Tomorrow I'll call her and see if she wants to "hang out" (probably with a few other friends).

I also have a question. I was with my friend who gets a lot of babes, and I saw him talking on the phone to a girl. He was jokingly telling her that if she didn't leave some bonfire he would slap her with his **** :eek: . LOL! I guess this is just being the "I don't care what I say" guy. So my question is: when I'm around girls (perticularly ones I like), should I just not care what I say (but not try to be offending)?
 
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It all depends on how you normally act. If you tend to say inapropriate things all the time (ie, me) go ahead. Not doing so will make you look like your actually puting yourself on hold for this girl. Otherwise avoid it: looks like your trying to act bad.
 
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