"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I trust my gut 100% of the time?

Squidward

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Ok, so reccently , my GF has been hanging out a lot more with a very close friend of hers all of a sudden. Hes a male. She told me she has known him for years and hes like a "Big Brother" to her. Okay, so hes harmless? Well my gut tells me a little differently. Last week she was ill, so he went round to her house to bring her some tablets, baring mind she doesn't even take them. And today at work, he came and met her on her lunch break for a good chat. Now I don't know if these two are in all honestesty, are just close friends. But they always say trust your gut, right? Uh.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ambition Now

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When you met your girlfriend, at that time she used to spent a lot of time with this guy or it just started to happen all of a sudden?
He can be anything, a friend, an AFC trying to get into her pants, dont show you care too much, but pay more attention to her behaviour...
 

Squidward

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It has happened just all of a sudden. Within in the 6 months of being a relationship, hes being brought up twice. And with that said, hes always being the dude she can 'talk to'.

This girl treats me like a king though, I mean last night she even convinced her family (Who live in Newcastle) to go home early, just to be able to see my gig. But I'm just confused right now. Very.
 

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her friend is not getting tang so dont worry about him. She's just keeping him around because she can
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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