Should I text her?

[phil2015]

Hi guys

Just a quick question regarding a girl I've been seeing a couple of weeks.
I've recently purchased Corey Wayne's audio book and realised I'm doing some things wrong, but struggling to see how to apply them.

In the past I have been very needy and feel I have texted too much to women I've dated, which caused them to disappear. As a result, despite having ample opportunity, my relationships rarely last more than a month.

I am trying to apply Corey's principle with a girl I am currently dating. I last text her 5 hours ago, and I'm wondering whether I should text her again. Iam getting truly sick of chasing and having to text first to dig or provoke a response. I feel like I should wait, and sit this out, see if she texts me etc as per Corey's advice.

What would any of you guys do now?

All of your advice appreciated, I am aware I have a needy problem.

Regards

Phil

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Text her for what? To negate your own loneliness? If you text 5 hours ago without reply, why do so again?

Corey Wayne has the best philosophy regards texting; the phone is for setting dates; full stop. Three or four messages and set the date. If a girl stops texting, well, reflect that. Half the time, they're just not that in to you; the other half the time, they're testing you to see if you become needy. It's a battle of wills which you MUST win, every time..

You seem to know what your problem is (neediness). At least you know that much. Now you need to practice overcoming that; by building a life of your own outside of women, by talking to and see more than one woman at once, and subsequently just becoming content with what you have. Currently, you're too focused on what you don't have, and not focused enough on what you need to do in order to get what you want.

Texting women will not make them come to you. Being a successful, content human being will.

 

[Poon King]

The game is extremely simple when you understand how it works. PUA books are great if you want to be an actor, but they are worthless if you want to change your mindset and/or become a true alpha.

The most basic rule is this:

Its the man's job to get laid. Its the woman's job to "bond".

What does this mean? It means STOP trying to pander, relate and connect with women. Just try to sleep with them. Men are the dominant sex so WOMEN are the ones who need to try to connect and relate if they want a relationship. Your only job is to be charming and try to f*ck her brains out ASAP.

You should also be spinning plates.

When it comes to texting.. the only reason to text a woman is to set up a time to meet her in person. Don't text her to "chit chat" or ask her how her day is going. That is what her girlfriends a faggot orbiters are for. You want most communication with women to be face-to-face so that your chances of escalation are high.

Follow the rule of "don't chase.. replace". Always pursue women but NEVER chase them. Keep yourself busy and never focus all your attention on only ONE woman. Even if you have an official girlfriend, you should still be friendly with other women and open to upgrading to a younger sexier model at anytime. Read that last sentence 10 times. Realize that once you stop doing that.. you give up all your leverage. This is why most men in relationships are submissive, duplicating b!tches.

 

[CMNILS87]

If you're waiting by the phone for a reply text, you need more stuff to do and fill up your day.