parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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You see the mistake then right?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should I Text Her?
- Thread starter i-shine-regardless
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
pyros
Master Don Juan
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It is not THAT complicated.
You had two dates, you barely kissed. Now her texts are lame and short.
WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND? she is not interested in you.
If she was...it would have been like this:
Day 1: you kiss or make out.
Day 4: she texts you saying good-morning. You go on a date. You make out or have sex.
Day 8: you text her, she texts you back enthusiastically. You go on another date you have raw sex.
Day 14: she sends you a selfie, you ask her out, she agrees.
etc
etc
You get the point.
You had two dates, you barely kissed. Now her texts are lame and short.
WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND? she is not interested in you.
If she was...it would have been like this:
Day 1: you kiss or make out.
Day 4: she texts you saying good-morning. You go on a date. You make out or have sex.
Day 8: you text her, she texts you back enthusiastically. You go on another date you have raw sex.
Day 14: she sends you a selfie, you ask her out, she agrees.
etc
etc
You get the point.