“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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should i text her or what?

I Am Lost 18

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Ok this girl and I met months ago, and have met again and again about 7 times total. We text a lot even to the point if I wouldn't text her for ONE day, she would text me saying 'hey you forgot about me!' with sad smilies. We text A LOT.

So now its been 4 days we haven't seen/talked or texted each other. Every night we are online at each others online profiles and we just wait for each other to say smth, I can feel it.

So should I break this and initiate or let her? (I can feel that she is waiting for me to initate, however, almost all times she iniates in the past)

Thakjs guys

Edit: another strong point to note: she got herself unlimited texting plan because we text each other so much, and I have the most texts I on her phone and vice versa.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Am Lost 18 said:
Ok this girl and I met months ago, and have met again and again about 7 times total. We text a lot even to the point if I wouldn't text her for ONE day, she would text me saying 'hey you forgot about me!' with sad smilies. We text A LOT.

So now its been 4 days we haven't seen/talked or texted each other. Every night we are online at each others online profiles and we just wait for each other to say smth, I can feel it.

So should I break this and initiate or let her? (I can feel that she is waiting for me to initate, however, almost all times she iniates in the past)

Thakjs guys

Edit: another strong point to note: she got herself unlimited texting plan because we text each other so much, and I have the most texts I on her phone and vice versa.
If this is the same girl from the first thread you made,I would say you have a zero percent chance with her,but even that would be TOO high.
 

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Negative(btw, that same girl planted a full lip kiss on me and said can't wait to return and see me again and is away for winter vacation at another state with her grandparents, so you failed and still fail at that scenerio, cause you told me to next her right? But I still kept at my game and basically got her. so stop living on your ego, thanks).

Soo any serious and (especially) nonfailing advice?
 

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Oh and I guess I can change my name now as well, if the forum allows to do so. Cause not lost in that original situation anymore.
 

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I Am Lost 18 said:
Negative(btw, that same girl planted a full lip kiss on me and said can't wait to return and see me again and is away for winter vacation at another state with her grandparents,
Wooow.

Dude you REALLY surprise me. I can't believe you still can't see what going on with this girl. LOL,you REALLY THINK because you got a "peck" on the lips that that means something.


Ok,well answer me this then...THIS THREAD about "should you text her or not"...is it about texting the same girl from your first thread,or are you talking about a different girl?


Be honest man.


If it is a different girl,then you'll need to give some more info about the two of you so we can see where you're at.



If it's the same girl from your first thread,then I stand by what I said.


I Am Lost 18 said:
so you failed and still fail at that scenerio, cause you told me to next her right?
I told you to next her? When? Can you produce my post to where I said that because I CAN produce the one AND ONLY post I replied with concerning that girl.

Here it is. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1622753


The reason I said the same thing is because I thought you were making a thread about the same girl.


If you're talking about a different girl,then fine,you'll need to give more info.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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too little information,

you are leaving out what happened that lead to the 4 day gap.
 
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