"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should i text/call her?

Sekond

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I need some help on this situation, usually i got an idea on the direction to take, but on this one, im confused...

First some background:
I was at a local bar last Sunday night playing pool with a friend, and this (cute) girl at the next table started hitting on me very subtle, like asking me pointers and whatnot in pool, I helped her and then went back directing my attention. Then while playing pool she flat out asked me if i had a gf, and later asked me if she was waisting her time hitting on me. Well all and all we exchanged numbers, made out at the bar, and then took her back to my place, but she got sick (took a sugary shot after beer) and asked for me to take her back home. I did, and she said we would hang out the next day.

Well, monday came and I text her to see if she was game to hang out, but she said she didn't want to hang out in her work clothes and said tomorrow is better. I questioned this until she texted me last night to chat.

So should I send one more text "Hit me up if your game to hang out" and if she doesn't then drop her? or should I just forget it and let her contact me?

Thanks everyone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mr. Me

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Ditto DG. Take the lead. She's interested in you as she offered "tomorrow would be better". Take her up on it. And stop texting. CALL her.
 
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