stumpy_mcgee
Don Juan
Ok, I have a question. When I first meet a girl, I can get any single one of them talking about themselves for hours, without it seeming like an interview. I totally leave myself out and any question they ask me, I kind of just sluff off, give an ambiguous answer, and direct something back at them.
The problem arises in the girls who I talk to who I've known for awhile...they've began to stop asking me questions, and if I don't direct the conversation...there's pure silence because they have no idea what to say. I'm beginning to wonder if they just see me as this totally boring person with nothing else to them? Should I begin to start talking about myself? Not implying that when I talk about myself, i'm going to 'open up my soul to her' and tell her all of my feelings on everything from taking a dump to Santa Clause. I'm just wondering if I should talk about hobbies and passions and what i've done and fun stories from the past. Occasionally open up about how I really feel about, say, a passion of mine, or a distant memory of me and my grandfather doing something before he died, something along those lines?
The problem arises in the girls who I talk to who I've known for awhile...they've began to stop asking me questions, and if I don't direct the conversation...there's pure silence because they have no idea what to say. I'm beginning to wonder if they just see me as this totally boring person with nothing else to them? Should I begin to start talking about myself? Not implying that when I talk about myself, i'm going to 'open up my soul to her' and tell her all of my feelings on everything from taking a dump to Santa Clause. I'm just wondering if I should talk about hobbies and passions and what i've done and fun stories from the past. Occasionally open up about how I really feel about, say, a passion of mine, or a distant memory of me and my grandfather doing something before he died, something along those lines?