"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I take this girl to the bar with me?

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I started kind of seeing this girl i guess. overall ive known her for like 6 or 7 months. but started hanging out a lot 2 weeks ago. weve only made out but have slept in bed together for a couple of days like a week. no big deal. she recently broke up with her BF of 1 or 2 months so nothing special. She is an attention wh0re.

I know she wants to hang out with me a lot but when the weekened comes she wants to go to this one bar she always goes too cause she has many "followers" or AFC's which give her her ego boost. she used to work there. she just called me up and asked me if "we" were going out . i said yea. then i said we are not going to xxxx (her bar). she was like why not yea we are etc.

i know she wants to go there to see her ex bf and use me to make him jealous and see her other AFC followers to make her feel good. Im thinking if i take her and she starts busting sh1t i will straight up leave her alone and just stop talking to her altogether.im hanign out with her cause im not AFC like those other dudes and she knows it. she always says you are ****y, confident etc. ive dealt with sh1t like that for 2 years with my ex. or i can just not take her there. what should i do? shes a cool girl but i know how she gets when she drinks and i hate sh1t like that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WTF??? You are thinking about taking an AW to a bar?? While you're at it, you should bring an alcoholic, a sex and drug addict, and a rage-aholic, too. I mean it's not like anyone can easily get angry, drugs, sex, alcohol, and attention at a bar.

The big scary question you have to ask yourself is this "Is the girl worth it?" In my opinion, if you answer "yes," then you need to shake the 8 ball and ask again later.

She's probably good in the sack so just hump her and dump her.
 
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am i suppose to say no lets go see a movie on friday night? i might just drop her off or once i see the first sign im out. i should give her a littel speech and say do what you need to do but i cant promise ill be around afterwards
 
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What is it that you want with this girl? A few good lays or a LTR? Whatever you do, you need to get a backbone and stand up to this girl.
 
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