"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should i still screw my ex?

DannyM

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Well asking this because we split up a few weeks ago and im seeing 4 new girls...should i still go back to my ex and screw her? I kind of want to but part of me thinks im taking a step backwards if i do this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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loveshogun

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If she is in any way clingy, no. And, in 90 percent of the remaining cases, no.

You'd have to have a REALLY good reason. Chances are that you don't.
 

Cherokee

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You know this is a bad idea, we know this is a bad idea.

Who you trying to convince?

I've been there, and it never ends happy. Someone always gets screwed over in the other way.

I hate to say it, but an ex is an ex for a reason.
 

Brandonc662

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No just did this with an ex from 2 years ago... We got back together for 10 days, I redumped her 2 days ago. Having sex with an ex can bring feelings up in one or both of you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SashaPUA

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Agreed. It's generally bad cuz you're almost doing it because you're needy. Follow this rule: If you're regularly banging at LEAST one other chick - then consider pumping you ex. it's good ;)

S.
 

Sh0t

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I would say "Absolutely!"

Getting ***** rarely hurts. And if you are needy, you can use this as practice on not being so.

The best way to create a **** buddy is to turn a gf into an ex-gf then into a fb. It's like alchemy, only less hygienic.
 

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Usually not a good idea.

If you do decide to bang an ex, I want to think of Karma's Law regarding sex with an ex:

Karma's Law #25 (Ex sex) - Make it memorable. Anal, Ass-to-mouth, 2 girl threeway, bondage, etc. Make damned sure the act is one you'll tell on your deathbed, with a smile on your mug. You're no longer making love to her. You're fvcking her as if she's the only b!tch on the prairie.
 

Sh0t

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Why is it not usually a good idea?

Banging exes is a GREAT idea. That's the only use an ex has.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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