should I still pay and drop her home after being dumped?

[Fela Kuti]

Hello,

So our relationship has been rocky this past month and yesterday she told me she needs to talk. I'm 80% sure that she's going to dump me. Most of the time when we date, I pay for the food and drop her home. So if tomorrow she dumps me, should I still do both? I'm leaning toward no paying, but maybe I could drop her off because her house is not too far from mine.

 

[Desdinova]

yesterday she told me she needs to talk. I'm 80% sure that she's going to dump me.

When I get that "we need to talk" sh1t, I cut them off at the pass. I ask them, "Why? Are you done with me?" If they're not, they'll say "No! Not at all!" If you get anything other than that, she's done with you. End it right then and there. There's no fvcking point in wasting time or money over breakups.

Just fvcking text her and ask "Are you done with me?". You'll get your answer and won't have to make the decision of whether to pay for her stuffing her fat face.

 

[Fela Kuti]

When I get that "we need to talk" sh1t, I cut them off at the pass. I ask them, "Why? Are you done with me?" If they're not, they'll say "No! Not at all!" If you get anything other than that, she's done with you. End it right then and there. There's no fvcking point in wasting time or money over breakups.

Just fvcking text her and ask "Are you done with me?". You'll get your answer and won't have to make the decision of whether to pay for her stuffing her fat face.

that'd be ideal, but being a sentimental bastard that I am, I always prefer a "proper" breakup.

 

[Desdinova]

Dude, fvck you and your "proper" breakup. Proper by who's standards? Hers? Womens? Who defined the "proper" way to break up? The only proper way to break up with a broad is to do it the way that works best for you. A text message is so easy and painless to fire off. "I'm done with you bytch. Goodbye". Delete everything that follows and ignore her indefinitely. Easy stuff.

But noooo, instead you're gonna waste the gas/bus fare to get there, sit down, waste money on a drink, waste money on food, and have her put you on the spot. You could be using that time and money to be doing something better like ANYTHING. Meeting with her is a waste of time, money and emotions. Just send me the money that you would've wasted on this bytch and I'll message her for you.

 

[RangerMIke]

The only time you owe her a proper break up a a man is when YOU are dumping her. Desdinova is right, trust your gut if you think you are being dumped then you probably are.

Just call her and ask her... "Are we done? If so then lets just do this over the phone... give it to me straight, I can take it."

 

[MountainSlide]

Yeah, what is all this traditional, "this is how my grandparents did it" bull****? I think that the very fact you'd ask a bunch of DJs if you should buy a chick that just broke up with you food is pretty funny because you already know what the answer is.

 

[visions]

Dude, fvck you and your "proper" breakup. Proper by who's standards? Hers? Womens? Who defined the "proper" way to break up? The only proper way to break up with a broad is to do it the way that works best for you. A text message is so easy and painless to fire off. "I'm done with you bytch. Goodbye". Delete everything that follows and ignore her indefinitely. Easy stuff.

But noooo, instead you're gonna waste the gas/bus fare to get there, sit down, waste money on a drink, waste money on food, and have her put you on the spot. You could be using that time and money to be doing something better like ANYTHING. Meeting with her is a waste of time, money and emotions. Just send me the money that you would've wasted on this bytch and I'll message her for you.

Spoken like a boss!

 

[l__i__l]

If she dumps you, just get up leave your share on the table and walk away.
But typically if a girl is going to dump you she won't ask you to pick her up, rather meet you there.

 

[devilkingx2]

What kind of dumb question is this? Why would you continue to provide your services to someone who has refused to pay for them?

 

[Speculator E]

When I get that "we need to talk" sh1t, I cut them off at the pass. I ask them, "Why? Are you done with me?" If they're not, they'll say "No! Not at all!" If you get anything other than that, she's done with you. End it right then and there. There's no fvcking point in wasting time or money over breakups.

Just fvcking text her and ask "Are you done with me?". You'll get your answer and won't have to make the decision of whether to pay for her stuffing her fat face.

Listen to Desdinova, you don't owe her anything at this point.

 

[badboyjmm]

Dude, fvck you and your "proper" breakup. Proper by who's standards? Hers? Womens? Who defined the "proper" way to break up? The only proper way to break up with a broad is to do it the way that works best for you. A text message is so easy and painless to fire off. "I'm done with you bytch. Goodbye". Delete everything that follows and ignore her indefinitely. Easy stuff.

But noooo, instead you're gonna waste the gas/bus fare to get there, sit down, waste money on a drink, waste money on food, and have her put you on the spot. You could be using that time and money to be doing something better like ANYTHING. Meeting with her is a waste of time, money and emotions. Just send me the money that you would've wasted on this bytch and I'll message her for you.

So true,

I broke up with my ex over the phone because she mention that because of me (we were arguing the day before) she cuts herself and that she will go cut herself after !

Interesting thing, she kept mentioning `` you are not going to give me that respect to break up with me in person`` no cause I don't owe you **** and you sound crazy.

Besides, when you are doing this ``proper breakup`` are you expected to deal with her afterwards or something ?