Theres this woman im attracted to
we used to be very close but she changed once she made new friends... she started to give "can't be bothered" replies and no longer tried to make conversations... Basically she chucked me aside..
Once inawhile she will suddenly be nice to me and within a few days she will be back to her "can't be bothered" attitude. Basically she was showing me no respect.
i eventually got fed up and decided on no contact.. went on for 5 months before she started making contact
this time she appeared v nice again n tried putting effort in convosations and no longer gave one word replies
last week i asked her out for lunch, and even though she wasnt free on that day she suggested a few other dates until i could find one in whihc i was free. we also started talking nicely until suddenly BAM.. she stopped replying all of a sudden
suddenly it brought back memories of the past where she used to not reply messages and give "can;t be bothered" replies
now im in a situation where i got the lunch appointment set but her sudden no reply has pissed me off
its been 1 week and she hasnt tried making conversation with me
now the scheduled lunch is next week.
My question to you guys is "Should i ask her if we are still lunching 1 or 2 days before it?" or should i juz **** it and don't ask at all
if i don't confirm lunch and assuming tt she doesnt reach out to confirm as well expecting me to be the one doing it... will it piss her off and ruin any chances i wanna have??
we used to be very close but she changed once she made new friends... she started to give "can't be bothered" replies and no longer tried to make conversations... Basically she chucked me aside..
Once inawhile she will suddenly be nice to me and within a few days she will be back to her "can't be bothered" attitude. Basically she was showing me no respect.
i eventually got fed up and decided on no contact.. went on for 5 months before she started making contact
this time she appeared v nice again n tried putting effort in convosations and no longer gave one word replies
last week i asked her out for lunch, and even though she wasnt free on that day she suggested a few other dates until i could find one in whihc i was free. we also started talking nicely until suddenly BAM.. she stopped replying all of a sudden
suddenly it brought back memories of the past where she used to not reply messages and give "can;t be bothered" replies
now im in a situation where i got the lunch appointment set but her sudden no reply has pissed me off
its been 1 week and she hasnt tried making conversation with me
now the scheduled lunch is next week.
My question to you guys is "Should i ask her if we are still lunching 1 or 2 days before it?" or should i juz **** it and don't ask at all
if i don't confirm lunch and assuming tt she doesnt reach out to confirm as well expecting me to be the one doing it... will it piss her off and ruin any chances i wanna have??