i met this 23 year old broad at a club. i'm 21. number closed her. she lives about an hour away, so we can only see eachother about once a week, which is perfect for me.
met eachother in a town between our 2 cities for the first date. just drank till about 2am. kissed throughout the date and had a nice kiss close. good date.
last night she drove to my city and met me at my place and then we went to eat and drink at a bar after that. i've been major c+f with her and generally mysterious. she has extremely high IL and she can't figure me out. my phone rang 3 times during dinner. i didn't answer them. on one of them i looked at my phone and said, "she can wait." it wasn't even a girl calling.
so she obviously gets the message i'm sending and she knows i date multiple women. she obviously doesn't know how many or how often i fvck these women, but she told me she doesn't sleep with a guy until she knows she is the only one he is fvckin.
i fully expected this girl to stay with me at my place, whether we had sex or not. i was extremely frustrated when she refused to stay over after we had been drinking so heavily. i tried to convince her to stay over with a number of different reasons, but she kept telling me that if she slept in my bed, she wouldn't be able to control herself and we would probably ended up having sex. she obviously has a major slut shield up after the "no sex until i know you are the only one" comment and this little stunt of not staying over.
so she ended up driving an hour to go on a date, drinking heavily, and then driving an hour back. very dumb thing to do, but what can i do? more power to her.
in the end we had an awesome date and now it's my turn to reciprocate the driving to her city in about a week. she already told me i could stay the night with her. why it's any different than her staying at my place, i have NO CLUE. typical dumbass broad.
obviously, i want to do everything i can to fvck her next week when i visit her. my question is this: should i tone back my typical DJ stuff and maybe call her just to chat and act like i'm not dating or going out? she wants a guy that is only fvcking her. i don't know how i can smoke screen her into believing this. basically i want to take a short cut and not waste a bunch of time dating her just to fvck her.
i'm 90% sure the answer to my question already, i just need some reassurance. i'm sure you all will tell me to continue the DJ stuff and eventually she will warm up to me and we'll fvck. you'll tell me that if i stop acting DJ she'll lose the interest that attracted her in the first place.
let me know if i can short cut this.
met eachother in a town between our 2 cities for the first date. just drank till about 2am. kissed throughout the date and had a nice kiss close. good date.
last night she drove to my city and met me at my place and then we went to eat and drink at a bar after that. i've been major c+f with her and generally mysterious. she has extremely high IL and she can't figure me out. my phone rang 3 times during dinner. i didn't answer them. on one of them i looked at my phone and said, "she can wait." it wasn't even a girl calling.
so she obviously gets the message i'm sending and she knows i date multiple women. she obviously doesn't know how many or how often i fvck these women, but she told me she doesn't sleep with a guy until she knows she is the only one he is fvckin.
i fully expected this girl to stay with me at my place, whether we had sex or not. i was extremely frustrated when she refused to stay over after we had been drinking so heavily. i tried to convince her to stay over with a number of different reasons, but she kept telling me that if she slept in my bed, she wouldn't be able to control herself and we would probably ended up having sex. she obviously has a major slut shield up after the "no sex until i know you are the only one" comment and this little stunt of not staying over.
so she ended up driving an hour to go on a date, drinking heavily, and then driving an hour back. very dumb thing to do, but what can i do? more power to her.
in the end we had an awesome date and now it's my turn to reciprocate the driving to her city in about a week. she already told me i could stay the night with her. why it's any different than her staying at my place, i have NO CLUE. typical dumbass broad.
obviously, i want to do everything i can to fvck her next week when i visit her. my question is this: should i tone back my typical DJ stuff and maybe call her just to chat and act like i'm not dating or going out? she wants a guy that is only fvcking her. i don't know how i can smoke screen her into believing this. basically i want to take a short cut and not waste a bunch of time dating her just to fvck her.
i'm 90% sure the answer to my question already, i just need some reassurance. i'm sure you all will tell me to continue the DJ stuff and eventually she will warm up to me and we'll fvck. you'll tell me that if i stop acting DJ she'll lose the interest that attracted her in the first place.
let me know if i can short cut this.
