Should I stay or should I go?

[seymour butts]

We've dated for four months and been exclusive for an additional four.

She's a great girl. Attractive, educated, social and very sexual. She also treats me very well by doing things like cleaning my apartment, baking/cooking for me and not hassling me when I drink too much with my friends. My parents love her and she can hang with my friends. Even though eight months is a short time to get to know somebody, at this point I have literally nothing to complain about and everything to brag about.

The problem is that I'm only 23 and I feel like there are so many other great girls that I want to meet and share experiences with. Like, if I'm walking down the street and I see a girl that's just my type: dark haired, slim and dressed just the way I like, I wonder what her personality is like and what she is like in bed. I wonder what she wants to do with her life and what her favourite things are. I'll never find out if I'm in a relationship.

Last week I went out for coffee with a girl that I was dating at the same time as my current girlfriend. She initiated contact. We hadn't talked for awhile so I had to let her know I was seeing somebody and that we could only be friends. She was okay with that but while we were talking I was thinking "damn, this girl is amazing too. What if I chose her rather than the other?"

Weigh in with your experiences and opinions. Is this something every guy goes through? Are you ever 100% sure that you're with the right girl?

Also, if you're reading this and thinking that I'm an ******* or trying to show off by posting this when this forum is full of guys with real girl problems, then realize that at 20 I was a scrawny virgin with a speech impediment. I know how it is. Success can be achieved, good luck guys!

 

[st_99]

Go. Get out there, be free, explore. Just don't cry about it when you hit a long stretch of no snatch. Gotta take the bad with
the good. It's a jungle out there.

 

[Serg897]

Hahaha....I posted this exact thread earlier this year. Here it is:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182504

My opinion? Go. It may hurt at first but the fact that you are thinking about means you arent satisfied.

 

[Racecar]

I've been faced with the same choice before.

I chose to break it off with my LTR to see what the field had to offer. Although I had some new, fun experiences, I spent most of my time looking for a girl just like the one I left. I still haven't found anyone like her.

I should note that I was a total AFC with that girl as I had little relationship experience at the time. Had we stayed together for long enough, I probably would have supplicated her into the arms of another man. My conquest to play the field lead me to The Game and into the world of seduction. I'm undeniably a better man for that decision.

It's a tough spot to be in and something you'll need to decide for yourself. How many women have you dated? If it's less than five, you should strongly consider getting out there and meeting new people. If it's over five and you know you're truly happy with this girl, then you should stay put.