"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I snapchat my ding dong to her now?

Odisseo

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I'm not going to go into the details because what you need to know is:

1) she's kind of a slut, possibly BPD, has two kids 5-7, I'm 26 she's 30. Uneducated mexican girl, but good looking.

2) She had interest in going out with me this Sunday night but I blew it with some poor texting. Nothing blatantly wrong just bad strategy, I ended up showing more interest than I even had in the first place.

So I text her at 3_15 PM with "Hola! Ready for some sake :p" no reply for a while so I already know what's coming.

5_30 she replies with three lines of text (we're using whatsapp). They all come in consecutively one right after the otehr no time in between

1) I am ready!
2) But I am going to take a raincheck :( I got called into work
3) One of my managers got sick at work and the paramedics pick him upso they're short staffed

I was going to not reply at all knowing what's up from reading other posters and having been in this situation before (my problem is once I get the date I don't follow through well and I mess up).

BUT given how she went "I'm ready!" and then said "but I am not coming tonight" I have to say I am quite pissed off. So my dumb self decided I was going to take a snapchat of my ****, send it to her and send along something like "this is how I feel about you" or something stupid like that to be stupid, I guess I was thinking I would come across as someone who doesn't care. NOTICE I did not take the picture and snapchat it to her yet

(for those who don't know, pictures sent through snapchat disappear after 3 seconds)

So I texted her on whatsapp after a half hour from her BS text
"Hang on I'm going to snapchat the way I feel to you ;)" and then right away "let me know when you're ready"

She answers 10 minutes later with "i'm ready lol" but then I have doubts and text "here it comes. are you really ready?"

and she says "yes look" and "lol"

so here we are to my dilemma and purpose of this thread: is it that bad of an idea to snapchat my **** to her and tag the image with something provocative like "this is how I feel aboiut you call me when you want to take this in your mouth"

Again, the image will disappear in 3 seconds.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would wholeheartedly advise against this.
Women aren't like men and don't readily get turned on by visual stimuli. You have to arouse her mind by being mysterious and subtle.
That'll fire her up way more than an unsolicited picture of your dong.

If you don't give a fvck about her and aren't worried if she gets offended and tells you to fvck off, send the shot. But I wouldn't anyway.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I would wholeheartedly advise against this.
Women aren't like men and don't readily get turned on by visual stimuli. You have to arouse her mind by being mysterious and subtle.
That'll fire her up way more than an unsolicited picture of your dong.

If you don't give a fvck about her and aren't worried if she gets offended and tells you to fvck off, send the shot. But I wouldn't anyway.
I stick to pg13 shots and the girls get plenty turned on and share back. I advise against genital pics.
 

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Do it! Just so we can laugh at her response. You're pretty much obligated to do something grand now that you've made such a big deal out of it.
 

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Haha I ended up not doing it but out of curiosity what type of shots exactly would arouse women? I just did snap chat two days ago and it's pretty awesome I have another chick sending me pictures of her self in her "pajamas"

Just shots of my face and chest, maybe me in a suit at work, or more like shots of me in jeans with a semi-hardon?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Send her a picture of you in your boxers pulled down ever so slightly, exposing just the very tippy top of your pubes.
 

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have you all forgotten about what happened to Anthony Wiener already
 

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Really? Ok! And by the way snapchat images delete themselves automatically
 

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Mauser96 said:
People CAN save screenshots of snapchat. I have seen it, my kids have showed me how.

Bad move for you to do this.
True, pretty much every device can screen capture these days. If OP isn't dumb enough to put his face in the pic he's fine. I seriously doubt anyone is going to recognize his c0ck or any other body part he feels like showing.
 

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foreverAFC said:
have you all forgotten about what happened to Anthony Wiener already
This could also turn into a guy version of Amanda Todd...

Don't do it OP
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just so you guys know, smart phones can take print screens on it, so even if is only 3 segs(on they servers) she can save it for later

alos note this, anything you leave on internet it stays there, not way to remove, you can hide it, but not remove
 
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