"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I simply ask my non-exclusive GF about her male best friend?

The_Reaper

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Since we're currently living in different countries, we're not exclusive, although this has not been explicitly stated. Should I ask her about who she's with - particularly i want to know what the story is with her best friend, who is male, and who is staying with her - in her place - in her college this weekend. fukk this oneitis.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why should you care? You're not exclusive.
 

The_Reaper

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I do care - I want to be exclusive with her, but I don't want to demand it to her. I don't know how to go about telling her this - that i want us to be exclusive, without sounding too afc, you know? plus i wont see her for months, so it would give the impression that i'm obsessed with her
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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The_Reaper said:
I do care - I want to be exclusive with her, but I don't want to demand it to her. I don't know how to go about telling her this - that i want us to be exclusive, without sounding too afc, you know? plus i wont see her for months, so it would give the impression that i'm obsessed with her
Remember when you used to be friends with chicks and how they used you like an emotinal tampon as you followed them around? Thinking you were in "looove"?

Yeah.

Chances are that's also what the dude is doing.
 

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Don't ask a chick to be exclusive. She'll ask you. That's one thing where the man does NOT initiate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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The_Reaper said:
I do care - I want to be exclusive with her, ...

... plus i wont see her for months...
And why do you want to be exclusive with her?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
And why do you want to be exclusive with her?
i guess you just want all the girl's attention to be focused on you, insecurity on your part. you may not exactly be dastardly in love with her.. but instead convincing yourself to believe it is so.
 

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let me get this straight.. you have a booty call.. please tell me you are ****ing, that you are getting it laid on you and you want to be her only, and she has told you she wants to keep ****ing other people?

first off, it is never a good sign if you have ****ed a girl for say.. a month and she still maintains her persistance to **** other guys... you aren't doing something right if you get my drift.

that first 3 or so times of sex is extremely criticial, you have to put it down. Ovbiously she is laying it on you becuase you don't want her seeing other guys.

secondly, don't ever go against the tide. if she maintains that she likes it the way it is, **** it, let it be.

lastly, to still a line from rollo, spin more plates man. for the love of god, you are whipped, and we have all been there, you get some good ass and you start rationalizing how good the rest of your life will be with her. that's why you have to see other people to remind yourself there is other peices of ass out there, and that's what she is in the end, a peice of ass
 
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