"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I send flowers to my ex?

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Hey guys,

I was talking to my ex-gf last night via MSN (we keep in close contact, despite the fact she's in college in Alaska) and we happened to get in a discussion about Valentines day after I asked her what she had gotten me. She recently sent out my b-day present late along with a card and something else. She told me she'd love to get flowers or a stuffed animal, then I went on to tease her about how she'd just use it for an ego boost and go bragging around campus.

Thing is, if she sent me something do you think it's appropriate if I send six roses to her? We're still **** buddies when she comes back from school, so it's not like I'm trying to buy sex or a relationship from her. I thought it'd just be a nice gesture. What do you guys think? Any links to sites that offer flowers for same-day delivery from different states?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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itishe said:
Thing is, if she sent me something do you think it's appropriate if I send six roses to her? We're still **** buddies when she comes back from school, so it's not like I'm trying to buy sex or a relationship from her. I thought it'd just be a nice gesture. What do you guys think? Any links to sites that offer flowers for same-day delivery from different states?
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Are you on crack? Seriously? You're getting sex why do you need to give her anything? You aren't her b/f. F.ck that sh.t man unless you are doing it just because you have $ to blow.
 
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I'm gonna cancel my order tonight. I don't know what I was thinking. Atleast it was only 6 roses.

Any cheaper, "less cliche" ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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itishe said:
Hey guys,

I was talking to my ex-gf last night via MSN (we keep in close contact, despite the fact she's in college in Alaska) and we happened to get in a discussion about Valentines day after I asked her what she had gotten me. She recently sent out my b-day present late along with a card and something else. She told me she'd love to get flowers or a stuffed animal, then I went on to tease her about how she'd just use it for an ego boost and go bragging around campus.

Thing is, if she sent me something do you think it's appropriate if I send six roses to her? We're still **** buddies when she comes back from school, so it's not like I'm trying to buy sex or a relationship from her. I thought it'd just be a nice gesture. What do you guys think? Any links to sites that offer flowers for same-day delivery from different states?
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Sorry but you don't send flowers to hors and that includes fu-ck buddies. If you do then you are basically paying for sex
 
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Your trippin, sending her those roses.

A. She's your X
B. She's out of state
C. Your already fvckin her, when she returns.
D. Why you spending money on some sh!t that doesn't need it!?

You could have texted her a simple ; ) wink.
Then went out and dropped 40 bucks at a bar w. a homey, and pulled one of the thousand and one pieces of ass... hungry for a man tomorrow night at a bar. Locking down a new bootycall.

Feel me?
Hope so!

Peace'
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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**** me in the goat ass! I've been trying to call FTD for about 6 hours now. "We're sorry but due to the high call volume, we can't take your call."

Oh, can't I wait on the line? Nope. I'll try calling the local flower shop tomorrow who is under FTD to see if I can still cancel. I think I'm screwed dudes.

*************

Oh well, I figure this will be one of my "nice guy" moments. She does 80% of the calling on the phone, we're still **** buddies, she's not a slut, and she's a cool girl. So it's not too bad I suppose. Live and learn.
 
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Haha called the floral shop this morning and luckily I could still cancel my order. :box:
 
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Haha called the floral shop this morning and luckily I could still cancel my order. :box:
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So how do you feel?
 
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Relieved. My ex is being super romantic today with me even though I didn't buy her ****.
 
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Feel a little more in control?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For sure dude, it's like I turned her on. She'd be ****ing like a mad woman right now if she was here.
 
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MOTHER ****ING **** SUCKER SON OF A GOD DAMN *****. The flowers arrived!

I'm giong to the florist and raising ****ing hell I want my money back.
 
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She is thanking me heavily and is very chirpy and nice. Like she was earlier, but now just more so.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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