drift king
Master Don Juan
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2 Saturdays ago i texted the lawyer lady i mentioned in my other threads (i dont have any options right now and i had a moment of weakness sending it)
me: the weather is getting warmer you can wear them for me soon.. we should cook dinner together sometime in the next few days. what you up to tonight? im just heading out to the bars nearby
(no response till today over week and 2 days AFTER i sent the text)
her: hey, im so sorry just covering all the emails and messages ive been sitting on, really bad: i've had so much on my plate that i dont want to think about it and just do it. been up to my eyes, and was only briefly meeting friends passing by as I have to do the sociable. Lucky you were in the bars nearby, hope it was good. I was brought to a place other side of town, as a friend was over from europe, so not my place or location, had to leave straight after. this week is mental for me, the evenings are full of seminars and events on top of my cry for time!!! hopefullt better by w/e and if you're about, would be lovely to have a coffee/hot chocolate?!
yes her text was THAT long! like 4 texts, massive email. wtf.
she clearly doesn't have any interest and is just using me as an orbiter..
im at a point whereby im not doing any chasing at all, i was gona basically say 'no sorry i cant, im gona be kinda busy this weekend.' in a couple days time.
she didn't acknowledge cookign dinner together, not anything which i've said.. im not going to be her orbiter.. if she is going to want to see me she's going to need to up the ante and do what i want (dress sexy for me and invite me over) i refuse to meet her in public now, only at her place.
should i just ignore the message or politely decline as the text above? i still want to hit that.. but i dont think it's going to happen. it might be better to make her chase.
me: the weather is getting warmer you can wear them for me soon.. we should cook dinner together sometime in the next few days. what you up to tonight? im just heading out to the bars nearby
(no response till today over week and 2 days AFTER i sent the text)
her: hey, im so sorry just covering all the emails and messages ive been sitting on, really bad: i've had so much on my plate that i dont want to think about it and just do it. been up to my eyes, and was only briefly meeting friends passing by as I have to do the sociable. Lucky you were in the bars nearby, hope it was good. I was brought to a place other side of town, as a friend was over from europe, so not my place or location, had to leave straight after. this week is mental for me, the evenings are full of seminars and events on top of my cry for time!!! hopefullt better by w/e and if you're about, would be lovely to have a coffee/hot chocolate?!
yes her text was THAT long! like 4 texts, massive email. wtf.
she clearly doesn't have any interest and is just using me as an orbiter..
im at a point whereby im not doing any chasing at all, i was gona basically say 'no sorry i cant, im gona be kinda busy this weekend.' in a couple days time.
she didn't acknowledge cookign dinner together, not anything which i've said.. im not going to be her orbiter.. if she is going to want to see me she's going to need to up the ante and do what i want (dress sexy for me and invite me over) i refuse to meet her in public now, only at her place.
should i just ignore the message or politely decline as the text above? i still want to hit that.. but i dont think it's going to happen. it might be better to make her chase.