"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going through exactly the same thing right now, shizz702. Just today, this girl I had decided to next for flaking out on me twice sent me a "hi" message. When I didn't text back, she sent me a "You're a snob for not texting back." message. (BTW, I had to translate her actual text message to English for this forum so I'm not sure the result is accurate.) I will continue NC, but I have to admit, I almost texted her back because I felt guilty for being rude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ken chang said:
Going through exactly the same thing right now, shizz702. Just today, this girl I had decided to next for flaking out on me twice sent me a "hi" message. When I didn't text back, she sent me a "You're a snob for not texting back." message. (BTW, I had to translate her actual text message to English for this forum so I'm not sure the result is accurate.) I will continue NC, but I have to admit, I almost texted her back because I felt guilty for being rude.
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No need to feel guilty at all! Think about what she did to you and resolve you won't tolertate the unappreciation. You were a potential prize in her life and she had to f(ck it up with her flakiness, her loss.
 
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