"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I refer my divorcing new roommate to this site?

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-Married for 9 years and bought a house together.
-Owns a rental property, GTR, boat and 4 motorcycles.
-They are still working at the same company.
-Has a mistress (6 months) before he ended the marriage a month ago.
-Mistress knows about him being married.
-The wife does not know of any infidelity.
-Mistress breaks things off with him a day ago.
-Divorce is not finalized yet.
-The mistress also works in the same company.

How would you guys handle this situation?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sodbuster

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I'd stay away for the **** storm that's about to hit his life. He doesn't need this site.... now, but maybe in the future.

IF he asks, send him here to look at the DIVORCE articles...he can do a search.
 

sodbuster

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get the best divorce lawyer in town...she's gonna have his ba11s for breakfast IF he doesn't do this, by the time family court gets done with him... he'll be so poor he won't be worrying about his next lay....but his next MEAL
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dr Tara Palmatier's site is called Shrink4men.com-- it's for men recovering from abusive relationships.
You didn't tell us WHY he shucked the wifey.
 
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