"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I pursue this woman? Red flags?

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I've been hanging with a new group of people and they said I should look into hanging out with this girl who is also single. They told me her name and found her FB profile.

As I browsed through her profile, I found the following.

1. Very hot. Wow, much hotter than my ex. She is a divorced, 32-year old mom who has over 900+ photos of just herself. A lot of selfies. She also is big on posting those dumb quote pictures like "be yourself, follow your dreams, blah blah" and posts something literally everyday.

2. Never went to college. But worked in a emergency room for a couple of years but I have no idea what she does now.

3. A ton of AFC orbiters. The sh!t they write to her is pretty hilarious. She has one orbiter who is in his fifties (he's a doctor) and he literally "likes" everything she does. Creepy.

I'm wondering if this even worth pursuing. My buddy has her number and said that he would text her about me if I'm still interested. She seems a bit like a AW...

Any advice? I don't want to judge but what I see on her profile didn't make the greatest impression.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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expos said:
I've been hanging with a new group of people and they said I should look into hanging out with this girl who is also single. They told me her name and found her FB profile.

As I browsed through her profile, I found the following.

1. Very hot. Wow, much hotter than my ex. She is a divorced, 32-year old mom who has over 900+ photos of just herself. A lot of selfies. She also is big on posting those dumb quote pictures like "be yourself, follow your dreams, blah blah" and posts something literally everyday.

2. Never went to college. But worked in a emergency room for a couple of years but I have no idea what she does now.

3. A ton of AFC orbiters. The sh!t they write to her is pretty hilarious. She has one orbiter who is in his fifties (he's a doctor) and he literally "likes" everything she does. Creepy.

I'm wondering if this even worth pursuing. My buddy has her number and said that he would text her about me if I'm still interested. She seems a bit like a AW...

Any advice? I don't want to judge but what I see on her profile didn't make the greatest impression.
1) Not educated

2) A narcissist (based on a ludicrous amount of selfies)

3) Likely has an ego the size of a freight train due to stupid AFC orbiters

4) Has a kid. Not a big deal if you do too. But if you don't have your own kids, a single mom is the total RAW DEAL

5) Her best years are behind her. You are in for the nice wrinkles and sagging skin all while STILL dealing with the "god's gift to men" mentality like when she was smooth and tight in her early 20's. Again, RAW DEAL.

I have not met a single person who tons of pictures and selfies on FB who wasn't completely full on themselves.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
1) Not educated

2) A narcissist (based on a ludicrous amount of selfies)

3) Likely has an ego the size of a freight train due to stupid AFC orbiters

4) Has a kid. Not a big deal if you do too. But if you don't have your own kids, a single mom is the total RAW DEAL

5) Her best years are behind her. You are in for the nice wrinkles and sagging skin all while STILL dealing with the "god's gift to men" mentality like when she was smooth and tight in her early 20's. Again, RAW DEAL.

I have not met a single person who tons of pictures and selfies on FB who wasn't completely full on themselves.
Good points. Man, she is hot...but just not worth the trouble. Sigh.
 
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