"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I pursue this woman? Red flags?

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I've been hanging with a new group of people and they said I should look into hanging out with this girl who is also single. They told me her name and found her FB profile.

As I browsed through her profile, I found the following.

1. Very hot. Wow, much hotter than my ex. She is a divorced, 32-year old mom who has over 900+ photos of just herself. A lot of selfies. She also is big on posting those dumb quote pictures like "be yourself, follow your dreams, blah blah" and posts something literally everyday.

2. Never went to college. But worked in a emergency room for a couple of years but I have no idea what she does now.

3. A ton of AFC orbiters. The sh!t they write to her is pretty hilarious. She has one orbiter who is in his fifties (he's a doctor) and he literally "likes" everything she does. Creepy.

I'm wondering if this even worth pursuing. My buddy has her number and said that he would text her about me if I'm still interested. She seems a bit like a AW...

Any advice? I don't want to judge but what I see on her profile didn't make the greatest impression.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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expos said:
I've been hanging with a new group of people and they said I should look into hanging out with this girl who is also single. They told me her name and found her FB profile.

As I browsed through her profile, I found the following.

1. Very hot. Wow, much hotter than my ex. She is a divorced, 32-year old mom who has over 900+ photos of just herself. A lot of selfies. She also is big on posting those dumb quote pictures like "be yourself, follow your dreams, blah blah" and posts something literally everyday.

2. Never went to college. But worked in a emergency room for a couple of years but I have no idea what she does now.

3. A ton of AFC orbiters. The sh!t they write to her is pretty hilarious. She has one orbiter who is in his fifties (he's a doctor) and he literally "likes" everything she does. Creepy.

I'm wondering if this even worth pursuing. My buddy has her number and said that he would text her about me if I'm still interested. She seems a bit like a AW...

Any advice? I don't want to judge but what I see on her profile didn't make the greatest impression.
1) Not educated

2) A narcissist (based on a ludicrous amount of selfies)

3) Likely has an ego the size of a freight train due to stupid AFC orbiters

4) Has a kid. Not a big deal if you do too. But if you don't have your own kids, a single mom is the total RAW DEAL

5) Her best years are behind her. You are in for the nice wrinkles and sagging skin all while STILL dealing with the "god's gift to men" mentality like when she was smooth and tight in her early 20's. Again, RAW DEAL.

I have not met a single person who tons of pictures and selfies on FB who wasn't completely full on themselves.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
1) Not educated

2) A narcissist (based on a ludicrous amount of selfies)

3) Likely has an ego the size of a freight train due to stupid AFC orbiters

4) Has a kid. Not a big deal if you do too. But if you don't have your own kids, a single mom is the total RAW DEAL

5) Her best years are behind her. You are in for the nice wrinkles and sagging skin all while STILL dealing with the "god's gift to men" mentality like when she was smooth and tight in her early 20's. Again, RAW DEAL.

I have not met a single person who tons of pictures and selfies on FB who wasn't completely full on themselves.
Good points. Man, she is hot...but just not worth the trouble. Sigh.
 
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